Yeah.. Just tell yourself to forget him. and be firm to urself. i'm trying to forget mine gak. i'm just telling/forcing myself to forget him. cry when i need to, but don't spend more than an average of half an hour everyday!! it's gotten less now, and hopefully he will be gone from my mind before I find another guy to replace him!!

maybe, just maybe, u rushed into the new relationship? i mean, did u give urself time to stay single and think of urself before going into the current one? i reckon that u need some time being single, enjoy flirting around and then start on something serious again..

but stay strong!!! the guy doesn't deserve someone like u to remember that he exists in this world!!!

omg.. my situation is like urs, except for the other girl bit. and even then, i'm not too sure.. i asked him, but he refused to answer.. and since he's in the US and I'm in the UK, I can't really spy on him. And frankly, I can't be bothered. In fact, if he ends up in those blind marriages (u know, the arranged marriage those muslim kids overseas have), I say best of luck to the unlucky girl who gets him...
omg. my ex is such a jerk!! that f*cking idiot. ok, cool down.. anyhow, like u, i've got great friends and family, too!! But the important thing I learnt from my teachers and people older than me is never marry someone who loves you less than you love him. especially if u're a muslim girl. cause the guy might end up divorcing u, or worse yet remarrying; thus making u the older wife. so, just look at all the jerks who left u as a lucky escape. cause otherwise, u prob had ended up in a worse condition after years of marriage...

haha.. i guess the guy is a plain jerk then.. i mean, both girls now best friends?? hahaha.. that is ironic, isn't it? somehow, i think crying when no one is around is normal.. just cry, don't let it stay in ur heart. and eventually u will grow tired of crying and will just not do it anymore (at least for me, the crying has become less frequent )

my heart goes to anyone who was dumped harshly by their bf!!! Anyhow, another good therapeutic method I found is watching loads of E entertainment channel. I find looking at the richest people in the world make me feel real happy.. maybe it's their extravagant lifestyle? or the fantastic handbags they have??