Depends on how much the girl love the girl.

The choice is quite limited right?

If the girl can't live without him, go to Australia else they will need to break up.

If the girl can live without him and don't want to move to Australia. Break up and get a new live.

He is not demanding. He is just being realistic. He has made up his mind of what he want.

So, LOOK !!! Either you come here or we end our relationship !!!

You sounds like you are those that has no faint and give up easily on a relationship.

Well, i still look at it at the bright side. There were together for 3 yrs d. The BF has put a condition that if she wish to continue, she'll have to sacrifice again and be with him in Australia. No matter what, the lifestyle in Australia is still better than M'sia I assume.

What does he has if he come back to M'sia?

I believe he must have a reason to ask the girl to go over. Seriously, the guy sounds like a smart guy to me. If not he won't be doing his master in Australia now.

How much salary would he get in M'sia with his master compared to Australia? I believe there is nothing wrong in wishing for the best. Transferring from M'sia to Australia might be a problem for a short period of time but losing the chance being with someone you truly love is a lost in the long run.

1. Why think of something you don't know? As i said, the decision is very simple. LOOK ! Make up ur mind, u want him ... go over. U don't want him, go over. ( You / U = Your friend )

2. It is NOT force. Force is no matter what, she must go. This is called as putting a condition. You come = We will be together. You don't come = We break up.

3. Which part of him that is NOT smart? As I said, he know what he want. Does your friend know want she want? If she does, she would be able to make a decision by now

This post has been edited by Vinspire: Apr 10 2008, 02:02 AM

As I've mentioned in most of my post. Your friend should know what she want. Can she live without the girl or not?

As a fren, we should support whatever her decision is coz even if you help her decide, it might not be the right thing. It is her life, she should make decision on your own.

Avex, it is not good to jump into a conclusion by saying the guy can't provide security for the girl. Within 3 yrs period, I am sure they've gone through a lot of memories together. We doesn't know the full story of this scenario. Therefore, I don't think any of us in the forum have the right to give her advice of what to do.

pumpkinn, when she first came to M'sia. I am sure she is her alone by herself too.

Finally, I don't believe such thing as guarantee exist in a relationship. If there is such thing as guarantee, then I guess every girl will fall for guy if they said "I guarantee you will be happy if you marry me".