i found out that my bf used to go to hooker 4 years ago. he is 32 now. do u think this guy is worth keeping?
bf used to go to hooker
bf used to go to hooker
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Apr 8 2008, 03:27 PM, updated 18y ago
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i found out that my bf used to go to hooker 4 years ago. he is 32 now. do u think this guy is worth keeping?
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Apr 8 2008, 03:34 PM
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"according" to him, a few years he din go liao la
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Apr 8 2008, 03:40 PM
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often lo... he told me bcoz he was too stressed
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Apr 8 2008, 03:53 PM
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Apr 8 2008, 04:04 PM
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QUOTE(feyhime @ Apr 8 2008, 03:57 PM) Body check a.s.a.p. i found it accidentally while finding books to read on New Year's day. the sad way to start my 2008...Wait, you look up his dairy or he show it to you? It doesn't really matter what he did in the past as long as it's not endangering you or disturbing your peace of mind. Of you really do mind, you'll have to work it out and see how long can you tolerate it. |
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Apr 8 2008, 04:38 PM
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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 8 2008, 04:12 PM) Everyone deserve a second chance. Unless he goes for hooker when you are in a relationship with him, if not I don't see any problem for a man to look for hooker when they are single. i have to agree with u. maybe deep down i'm just feeling insecure that he profession requires him to be surrounded by females and people who willingly to become a mistress/having extra marital affairs/going to hooker while on business trip, etc.Ofcoz ask him to go for body check for god sake |
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Apr 8 2008, 05:56 PM
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Apr 8 2008, 06:33 PM
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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 8 2008, 05:58 PM) Be confidence of your own and him as well. Trust him like you trust your own. Is hard to start a relationship, since you both are fated to be together. Forgive him. Everyone had his/her own pass. The most important is your future with him. Thanks Peppy! Glad that i'm still with himMy 2 cents, hope it helps Maybe the problem is, my social circle consists of innocent people and surely he's from a more complicated and real circle so it's a cultural conflict |
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Apr 9 2008, 08:49 AM
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Thanks a lot for your advice and comments!
should just let go the past. i know he loves me deeply... |
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Apr 9 2008, 05:40 PM
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QUOTE(victor_hoh @ Apr 9 2008, 05:32 PM) To TS TO victor_hohYou never know what someone has done in the past, unless he/she tells you honestly. Look at it this way, if you had never looked at his dairy, you would not have known that he had visited hooker before, right? What is the difference of knowing and not knowing then? The truth is he has visited hooker before, and it will never change. So I would say, let bygones be bygones. Look at present, and future. thanks! this is exactly what he told me.... think the best i can do now is to forget about it TO ALL looks like this has deviated from my intention of starting the topic... |
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