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TSrubbersoul
post Apr 8 2008, 03:27 PM, updated 18y ago

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i found out that my bf used to go to hooker 4 years ago. he is 32 now. do u think this guy is worth keeping?
TSrubbersoul
post Apr 8 2008, 03:34 PM

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"according" to him, a few years he din go liao la
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post Apr 8 2008, 03:40 PM

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often lo... he told me bcoz he was too stressed
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post Apr 8 2008, 03:53 PM

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QUOTE(map @ Apr 8 2008, 03:49 PM)
hey girl, sorry to hear  sad.gif

more importantly have him go for a check up, and you need to go for a check up first

out of curiosity, how did you find out about it?
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it was written in his diary
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post Apr 8 2008, 04:04 PM

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QUOTE(feyhime @ Apr 8 2008, 03:57 PM)
Body check a.s.a.p.

Wait, you look up his dairy or he show it to you?

It doesn't really matter what he did in the past as long as it's not endangering you or disturbing your peace of mind. Of you really do mind, you'll have to work it out and see how long can you tolerate it.
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i found it accidentally while finding books to read on New Year's day. the sad way to start my 2008...


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post Apr 8 2008, 04:38 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 8 2008, 04:12 PM)
Everyone deserve a second chance. Unless he goes  for hooker when you are in a relationship with him, if not I don't see any problem for a man to look for hooker when they are single.

Ofcoz ask him to go for body check for god sake
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i have to agree with u. maybe deep down i'm just feeling insecure that he profession requires him to be surrounded by females and people who willingly to become a mistress/having extra marital affairs/going to hooker while on business trip, etc.
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post Apr 8 2008, 05:56 PM

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QUOTE(moorish @ Apr 8 2008, 05:29 PM)
how old are you?
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i'm 32, old liao la
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post Apr 8 2008, 06:33 PM

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QUOTE(Peppy @ Apr 8 2008, 05:58 PM)
Be confidence of your own and him as well. Trust him like you trust your own. Is hard to start a relationship, since you both are fated to be together. Forgive him. Everyone had his/her own pass. The most important is your future with him.

My 2 cents, hope it helps
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Thanks Peppy! Glad that i'm still with him

Maybe the problem is, my social circle consists of innocent people and surely he's from a more complicated and real circle so it's a cultural conflict
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post Apr 9 2008, 08:49 AM

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Thanks a lot for your advice and comments!

should just let go the past. i know he loves me deeply...
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post Apr 9 2008, 05:40 PM

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QUOTE(victor_hoh @ Apr 9 2008, 05:32 PM)
To TS

You never know what someone has done in the past, unless he/she tells you honestly. Look at it this way, if you had never looked at his dairy, you would not have known that he had visited hooker before, right? What is the difference of knowing and not knowing then? The truth is he has visited hooker before, and it will never change.

So I would say, let bygones be bygones. Look at present, and future.
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TO victor_hoh
thanks!
this is exactly what he told me.... think the best i can do now is to forget about it

TO ALL
looks like this has deviated from my intention of starting the topic...


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