i found out that my bf used to go to hooker 4 years ago. he is 32 now. do u think this guy is worth keeping?

used to go mah

not a problem..

how long he din't go already ?

"according" to him, a few years he din go liao la

We are all sexual beings, its the human condition.

ajak him go for body check-up to be on the safe side..

last time he often go or once in a blue moon?

4 years ago better than 4 years later

often lo... he told me bcoz he was too stressed

Seriously, get him to go for blood checkup. You are entitled to a safe mind that he is healthy and fit.

secondly, can you trust him ? If you think you can trust him, why not ?
If there is no trust, there is no ground for the relationship to work anymore.
Everytime you see him with another girl, you would be very suspicious.

he used to go to hooker so you do not want him anymore???? Well if you really want to prevent him from finding one now...u can prevent him by providing him his Ahem* needs instead...

if u already have in mind that he is not worth keeping...den well..find another one. At least he is honest with u about his past?

its better than he goes to hook when with u!!

hey girl, sorry to hear

more importantly have him go for a check up, and you need to go for a check up first

out of curiosity, how did you find out about it?

it was written in his diary

wow.. yeahhs.. how did ur bf tell u.. ? n seriously, do go for a full body check up..

Body check a.s.a.p.

Wait, you look up his dairy or he show it to you?

It doesn't really matter what he did in the past as long as it's not endangering you or disturbing your peace of mind. Of course if you really do mind, you'll have to work it out and see how long can you tolerate it.

This post has been edited by feyhime: Apr 8 2008, 04:02 PM

hmm.. i think there must be other reasons why a guy would want to find hookers. yes perhaps he's stressed.. but maybe he wasnt satisfied with ur sex relationship in d past? it's quite surprising that he confessed to u. it's good lar that he's being honest. u should discuss with him lor.. if currently he's satisfied or not. and then leh, body check up is a must. u don want to be affected by STDs =.=

anyway, loving someone n finding hookers r 2 different things.. he go find hookers doesnt mean he loved them mah.. is still better than having affairs outside that u dun know about it. One night stand is oni one night stand. budden leh, some girls kenot live with the fact that the bf go find other gals.. hookers or not hookers.. still girls mah.. actually alot of guys also go find hookers.. just that most of the guys would never never admit it.

if u still love him n believe in giving second chances.. or u think he's still a good guy (aside from finding hookers), then maybe u shouldnt dump him so fast. coz, it's 4 years ago mar..... surely he hopes that u will forgive him. coz ah, if u don forgive him, he sure feel stupid for telling u d truth. n next time leh, he will not be honest to u.

budden leh, if u feel u cant trust him anymore, or don love him anymore, then u should leave him n find a better guy which u think would never ever go find hooker (but .. if he don tell u, u also dunno what)

There is quite a number of my relatives and friends have the past experience of finding hookers.....
Finding hookers and loving u is different things.
why not for giving a second chance for a guy who still loves u

butcher meat hook?fresh meat meh?


aiyor..u too obsess with dota d...

all ur sentence sure got dota language wan

oh.. he never really tells you ?
this is problematic. If you confront him about it, he would take that as an infringe of his privacy ( diary)

could it be just his fantasy ?

Try talk to him about it.

i found it accidentally while finding books to read on New Year's day. the sad way to start my 2008...

4 years ago he was with u ?
if he was single why cant a grown man go to hooker ??

have u had sex with him ? yes .. u go for check up ... and then ask him to do it as well ..

it was last time .. give him a chance to change ...