yep trust and encourage you to learn from your mistakes... and if my dad goes to a hooker that is totaly up to him i cannot hold my dad's 53 y/o hand like a young boy and they also dont want to hold their childreen's hand like a small kid and i srsly doubt my mom  guide you for the rest of your life. and judgemental behaviours comes form a judgemental family. go read up some books  main reason people comment about a thing negatively is beacause they have little to no knowledge in it.
and nope you dont have to ask your parents b4 u judge but obviously i can see that you are young and dont notice that when your parents talk in a judgemental way their childreen would always catch that bad habbit. if you look back all your post almost all are judging me or other forumers .

TS: sorry off topic. some one still cant open his eyes