i think it's law of attraction gua...
if a guy scan tru then enuf o... forgivable...
but if he stare very long... then it might piss of the girls...
respect women pls...

I stare at his assets when he was checking mine. And usually I would look and the look away and touch a finger or two to my lips and do a Lelouch's poise and chuckle silently but devilish.

or I would stare to his eyes until he squirm away.... did it many times.


or I kick them in the nut when some guy tried to kiss while feeling me up. Happen at school years ago when I was being harrased by a group of boys. Never reported it to the authority because I end up beating them up to a pulp. yes, I'm a girl beating up 5 male bastards. tch... tch...

I am amazed that some of you actually expect certain individuals to change their behavior and tendencies i.e. avoid staring at women's chests.

You can't even change your partner's behavioral patterns let alone strangers'.

The solution, if it can be called that is simple as some have already suggested here - display your cleavage and accept the inevitable stares OR cover up and get less or no stares.

Oh and for those who wish to throw their footwear at others for staring at their chests, that is a clearly liable case of assault and you could very well be charged in a court of law.

Im a civilised guy, educated and proper in courtesy,, but sorry to say i still stare at womens asset especially those prominent one.. cant forgive guys.. blame god

haha..b4 blame god, blame ur eyes...

then us girls are liable to sue him for sexual harassment.

one time, i was hanging around with my guy friends.. one of my guyfriend's 'very gedik (in term of her personality, not her appearance)' girlfriend came and wore this really short shorts and strappy top which the front show half of her boobs. I'm a girl and I too look at it but I think, "the thing is juggling and seems like wanting to drop off" and also "Does she wear a bra??" and "I think one of hers is droopy" kinda thoughts

I mean la.. don't wear something that shows more than you intend too. Slightly showing skin is ok, sexy but too much would make you look like a wh*beep*. I too have boobs but I don't show it to the world la. Who you want to beat? Pamela Anderson??

Plus, strap top has lost its trendiness... wear something nice la... want to show boobs? Wear the one J.Lo wore.. if not, then cover up.


yes, I do have some guys looking at my assets. I just walk away to escape them.

you are like asking why cat eat fish ....

there is no cat that doesnt eat fish

Wow u must be very attractive at school years, but staring each other's assets quite dangerous, who knows the guy ur staring might turned out be a XXX maniac ?

How I wish my GF would kick me in the nut

its because in malaysia, we dont see it often, thats why ppl will stare, like in europe country, ppl dont bother looking at it anymore because its normal already...

I don't usually stare at guy's assets... by accident only... especially if they were staring me from down to up. My ex and his friend did it to me and I glared at them. FYI, Glaring never worked. Dumping and ignoring your ex for a year did. Plus, I know some basic judo, aikido and karate. If the guy continue to stalk me after the 'staring assets' contest, I would call police already as I don't really attack ppl for staring my assets. Touching? Yes, I kick their nuts.

Am I attractive at school? Hmm.. weirdly, that time I was really self-conscious about myself (zits and all that)... but I got bullied by boys for most of the time... I actually scared a very annoying bully away by saying "Kenapa? Suka kat aku ke?" *snigger* I learn several lessons girls, teenage boys do bully you if they like you and teenage boys are fragile when the girl he likes actually ask that "Do you like me?" question. my weird school days

I still have one of those guy (who trying to attempt to *ehem* me years ago) as a friend since he's my guyfriends nephew... back then, he was trying to feel me up but now he wants to marry me... Its very... weird... haha... he forgot that I kick his nut once.. Of course, I reject his proposals.

teenage boys nowadays still the same, just change a bit direction when confronting with girls. The bullying technique still works in my school, and of course if u ask them 'do u like me?' question they sure melt in front of u.

U know judo ah ? voyeurs' worst enemy

just stare la. but not for staring like crazy. hamsap?

i think gal's boobs is the main attractive for men. and we should not bury this advantage. if not, what for we buy "push-up" bras????

why u are saying this when ur avatar tells me a different story ?

This post has been edited by JonSpark: Jun 24 2008, 12:38 AM

wahaha...exactly...

i dun haf big asset like many girlz have... its veri true guyz alwiz choose big-big 1 than small-small 1... dis is sad but tats how dis world turn

ermm dont really agree with people like big big 1 compared to small small 1

to me, i normally look at people with good fashion/ knows how to make herself looking pretty

some girls with not so big assets also got people will look ma, like those who said, if you're wearing baby-T and shorts, but still get that look? well if you dont mind, i'll explain, its all base on preference,

for me, i think girls in baby-T and shorts is so dam cute that i like to look for a few times.... ermm and for me, v's are okay, but skirts are the main attraction, i find myself looking at girls wearing shorts/skirts more then girl with jeans.....

if the girl wear jeans, no matter how big/sexy/pretty she is, i dont normally look at them...so i guess its all preference.....oh and not to mention, the curvy waist is always thumbs up, and also the hair of the lady, if it suits her, then i'll look for few times again ><

ermm but sometimes quite a dilemma, if you're looking at her assets, if she look back at you, dont know wanna pretend not looking or just smile.... wat do you girls think? because if pretend not looking like abit perv....like some people might say ' dare to look dont dare to admit' and if just smile, like very embarassing T_T give some tips lo

actually i always want to compliment a friend/ stranger if get caught looking =p but then always out of words on how to compliment them, any suggestion that would seem polite and not rude?

This post has been edited by laliloo: Jun 24 2008, 06:26 AM

no matter big vig or smal smal, u stil girl okie??haha...
dun worry,u still hv few secret waepon in ur hand 2 kill guys 1..haha

yeah, it doesnt matter as long as urs down there is diff then a guy, then it wont be a problem

dun worry, by the time they got bored with big-big 1, they will seek yall small small 1, prepare for revolution !!

i think those guys who wont stare at womens assets stay in temple and botak liao.. =.= no offence..