exactly! wisdom right there.

just like girls prefer confident guys (even those with shitty looks). The same applies the opposite way.

Guys will stay away from girls who whined and think themselves negatively. Many "average" gal held their head high and straight, do things with confidence, and with the magic of proper make-up and presentable clothing style..... you see guys wagging their tails waiting to date her

ya..ya...betol2!

well if you're 25 and still single, probably you're too picky or you got attitude problem or maybe you're not friendly or you don't mix around with people doing things like outing or lunch together. Sitting in front of your pc everyday won't help ^^

go out and mix with frens....maybe mr right is juz beside u ...

Hey girls. go out n meet more people. dun shy to show your feeling. just be yourself.the fate wont come to u if u keep yourself in room. Cheers!! hope u find your Mr right soon.

We should do a get-together for everyone who are single.We can help each other mix around.

I think the problem might be you yourself.Are you too shy?Not confident around guys?

There are several universal characteristics that are attractive to both genders; confidence first and foremost, good personality, looks, and ability/skills.

If confidence is a problem, learn to look for the positive parts of yourself and build upon those while minimising your weaknesses. The saying that you must love yourself before you can truly love others is very true.

Some guys like the shy type of girl, but confident guys who work hard to improve themselves want equally assertive, self-confident girls who know what they want and aren't afraid of going all out to get it. Of course, this isn't a rule as preferences are individual to each person.

Good personality includes politeness, being positive, friendly and easily approachable, not having a potty mouth etc. Habits also fall under this category, such as smoking (which i personally find is a turn-off but other guys might like it), sitting like uncle in coffeeshop and so forth.

Looks are quite important to guys initially, but I know quite a few girls who look plain but have many admirers due to their skill at presenting themselves, e.g. wearing clothes that flatter their particular figure, take the time to keep themselves fit and groom themselves just right (but not overdo it).

Ability/skills are things that guys and girls can find common interests, can be anything from playing some form of musical instrument, love of sports, arts etc. Ambition and the will to reach personal goals also falls under this category.

Of course this is a general idea and people's preferences vary, so part of it depends on your luck as well, but you need to put yourself in a position to make that luck work, as single, eligible bachelors won't fall out of the sky.

Hope that helps!


People go on a date to see if they're compatible or not, its get to know each other before deciding whether to become a couple, or in other words 'going steady'. Going on a date doesn't automatically make two people bf and gf.

Time is not ur's yet.But when it does come u'll no he's the man loh...

i understand your situation.Is it your circle of friends is small and you hardly meet any guys ?

IF you have more circle of friends and mix around more you chances is higher to get

It's not that bad. Your time will come.

1) good look in my opinion.
2) caring.
3) sometimes dependent on me and sometimes not.
4) don't smoke. Drinking a bit is acceptable.
5) like to involve in sport.
6) tolerant.
7) patient.
8) good-tempered. This is the one I want the most.
9) can stay with my family.

This post has been edited by lcl832002: Mar 19 2009, 03:11 AM

come on... u dont have problem... is just faith has not come yet...
i am still single too... for a long long time... i am 24 years old!
even few of my friends are single... dont worry...
u will be fine... then, once u get a bf friend, u will be not on LYN..

I think you should just be yourself and don't think to much about it. The more you think, things will get worse. I bet when u see guys, u just change to different person. Just let the real you attracts them. I know u nervous havent pak tor before but just be natural.. they will come! as in come to you...

My neighbour is ady 32.. havent pak tor. Not like she's not pretty. Maybe u should find out more what guys are looking for lor. Rather than keep wondering why every1 got bf but you dont.

dont worry TS,i be ur fren
i also single for 25 year
lol,no harm feeling
guy free and easy,save amount rm15000 can get a nice wife already

This post has been edited by stupid: Mar 21 2009, 04:25 PM

I don't like girl taking order, prefer 2-way communications.

My question is

Why are you so worried ?

Yea, what's wrong being single? You're only 25yrs old still consider young. If i were you i'll enjoy my single life. Dont have to be so sad...god wouldn't treat you so bad.. just wait for the faith

i got my best friend never date before, coz, she limit herself from so many things, she so happy can go melaka and call me in exciting tone, all her life is study and work, weekend also study till now. so if you dun have bf issit coz, you limit yourself? for me, you you could divert your attention to something else like do more charity or travel, you wun know you met some fantatsic guys than a regular guys on the street only look for cute girls..no point..

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Added on March 24, 2009, 2:18 pmpoint add..

if you really manage to start 1st love (date), plz, dun innocently trust the old guys..coz they experience and been hurt by dozens of girls before meet you..just see well and enjoy your singlehood or couplinghood..whatever...Haha

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Added on March 24, 2009, 2:23 pmfor those think 25 yrs old lady is still young, plz, dun say that if you not in position of you are around our age k?? ladies way of thinking and evrything change so fast in matter of weeks, when age turn 22, you will notice your perspective on things change...plz respect la..still young still young..stop those 25 yrs old still young statement..

This post has been edited by jellybutton: Mar 24 2009, 02:23 PM