Welcome to the real world. Anyway guys shouldn't worry so much as if you don't have the means to provide her the lifestyle she wants, she just won't pick you. She'll just pick those that can provide the lifestyle that she wants.

   However if a girl can "pick" a guy based on material/wealth standards a guy too can dump a girl based on her beauty standards. I believe that's fair.

   So if a girl marries a guy because he's rich, grows old , no longer pretty and a guy dumps her for a prettier one, seriously I have no pity for the girl.

Dear Alice,

Thank you^^

his job scope, i know he was a lecturer, then since he is the only son, he has to take over his dad company... He's really really smart, like my walking encyclopedia~!!! 

daddy never let me work, whenever i talk about it, he will give me credit card... the only working experience was working in my family doctor's clinic with mum's permission, as a nurse and as teacher in my aunt's kindergarten FOC.

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Added on April 30, 2008, 1:01 am

Just avoid going for clubbing or bar... it will increase the probabilty of meeting guys with bad intentions. I am not so sure, cause i  have never been clubbing before. It was forbidden by my dad. That's the reason given.

Caring and home-loving guys, they normally won't go clubbing... they usually stick at home when free, care for parents, love their pets... maybe bring your pet for a jog(i mean if your pet is a dog), you will meet these kind of guys, or go library:p
me n my bf started our first conversation thru pets... or regarding PhD thesis writing... either one... can't quite remember. (I wasn't interested in him, furthermore, was trying to avoid him caused i did something embarrass and caught by him)   

how to meet rich guy... erm, i don't know...

regarding bout the blog... to avoid being cheated, if that guy said he is what manager or know what VIP, then ask him to bring you to one of the function or dinner, since "you" were his gf. My bf brought me to most of his functions if they didn't clash with my dance or orchestra practises or exam period... really stressed with all Datuk, lawyers, doctor, sometimes embassy ppl and politicians there... although during daddy's function, i have to sit with Datuk n Datin.... but it was totally different.

Opps... sorry, back to topic. I found out how much my bf earns ... he told me last time, i forgot, i mistaken as 3.8k... he said i am 'shotshot', it is 38k. i can't believe he can earns more than my dad! i think nobody will believe me... cause i can't believe him. i told him that he is lying... he let me check his payslip, his bank account...
If he is a director of a company, he can fake his own payslip... can he? 
his company is there i am pretty sure, cause i send him sweets, cards and letters(i know it's old fashion, but it feels warmer than receiving emails, he did the same too, he send me a pink mechanic pencil and whole box of my favorite sweets, and graph paper with darken boxes-owe secret code ). his company was the one handling my dad's hotel design & (building<<<not so sure) bout 20 years back.