maybe some girls would prefer their spouse, future spouse or bf to earn more than them..

to me.. i would prefer to earn more ...

should i get married.. i would even think twice to be financially dependant on my husband..

i love to have my own money.. to be financially independant.. (i will have the authority to spend on things i like.. i don't have to be controlled by my other half.. i don't have to beg and ask for money from him.. - think bout it.. isn't this sweet?)

i think the root of the problem is most people or girls tend to be lazy.. i admit that i'm lazy too and like any other girls.. i do prefer to be a siu lai lai.. but i do think of the consequences before commiting myself to a life like this.. mentally, i can't afford that kind of life...

y? cuz it all goes down to the word (SECURITY) -> yes i prefer to give myself security.

i feel insecure if i'm not independant.. at this time and age today.. i think maybe girls should stop dreaming of just being dependant solely on their husband.. anything could happen...

I have a guy aquiantance whom is financially stable.. with 2 kids.. and his wife is expecting another one by the end of this year.. and guess wad he did.. he cheated on his wife..

girls.. pls don't be naive anymore and think that .. when u get a rich husband.. u're well off and not be worried of anything.. to me it's always good to have a grip on your own in case of anything..

fight for ur own life.. it's always happier to spend own hard earned money and feel the satisfaction of being able to earn quite a comfy amount of salary..

and if you're ambitious.. you would have another kind of satisfaction.. that u actually stood up ur own.. make ur family proud.. and better still if u earn more.. (u will understand wad i mean if u reached that level)

i'm not implying that all guys will be cheaters and not good.. it's all better to be safe than sorry.. afterall it's not bad to have 2 income generators for a home..

This post has been edited by fickle_minded: Aug 30 2008, 09:39 PM