erm... sorry... is it ok if i do not know how much my bf of 3 years earns?

does one really need to know how much his or her partner earn?

but i already dream of marrying him, cause he saved my life(protected me from a crazy guy who followed me everywhere)!!!
I feel safe with him, and he said he feel all his pressure disappeared when i'm with him .

Not so soon marrying him, need to finish my studies first... i have never thought of all these that all of you have mentioned.

let's say if you are a girl, if your bf ask you not to work after marriage, do you listen or continue going after your dream?

Dear Alice,

Thank you^^

his job scope, i know he was a lecturer, then since he is the only son, he has to take over his dad company... He's really really smart, like my walking encyclopedia~!!!

daddy never let me work, whenever i talk about it, he will give me credit card... the only working experience was working in my family doctor's clinic with mum's permission, as a nurse and as teacher in my aunt's kindergarten FOC.

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Added on April 30, 2008, 1:01 amJust avoid going for clubbing or bar... it will increase the probabilty of meeting guys with bad intentions. I am not so sure, cause i have never been clubbing before. It was forbidden by my dad. That's the reason given.

Caring and home-loving guys, they normally won't go clubbing... they usually stick at home when free, care for parents, love their pets... maybe bring your pet for a jog(i mean if your pet is a dog), you will meet these kind of guys, or go library:p
me n my bf started our first conversation thru pets... or regarding PhD thesis writing... either one... can't quite remember. (I wasn't interested in him, furthermore, was trying to avoid him caused i did something embarrass and caught by him)

how to meet rich guy... erm, i don't know...

regarding bout the blog... to avoid being cheated, if that guy said he is what manager or know what VIP, then ask him to bring you to one of the function or dinner, since "you" were his gf. My bf brought me to most of his functions if they didn't clash with my dance or orchestra practises or exam period... really stressed with all Datuk, lawyers, doctor, sometimes embassy ppl and politicians there... although during daddy's function, i have to sit with Datuk n Datin.... but it was totally different.

Opps... sorry, back to topic. I found out how much my bf earns ... he told me last time, i forgot, i mistaken as 3.8k... he said i am 'shotshot', it is 38k. i can't believe he can earns more than my dad! i think nobody will believe me... cause i can't believe him. i told him that he is lying... he let me check his payslip, his bank account...
If he is a director of a company, he can fake his own payslip... can he?
his company is there i am pretty sure, cause i send him sweets, cards and letters(i know it's old fashion, but it feels warmer than receiving emails, he did the same too, he send me a pink mechanic pencil and whole box of my favorite sweets, and graph paper with darken boxes-our secret code ). his company was the one handling my dad's hotel design & (building<<<not so sure) bout 20 years back.

This post has been edited by SakuraSnow: Apr 30 2008, 04:32 PM

Thanks viper88 for your warning
He lives on earth slightly >30 years.
We met his client shopping with his gf, but that gf was his client's daughter's classmate. (his friends bout 50+ i think, with D*t* title)
My bf did mention he can't understand why, he doesn't like it, but what to do, his client.

My bf upholds chinese traditional values... he love his parents ALOT, even have maid, but sometimes they just can't do the way you want it, his mum will clean it again, to avoid his mum doing that, he will do the housework the way his mum likes it. He stays at home or study in library, sometimes starbucks, weekend swimming with dad or jog with mum... and of course movies, computer games or study with me

i agree that rich guys tends to be "flower-heart" abit, i still believe there are guys with kind hearts near to extinction... usually those who are fillial to their parents can't be too bad. What goes around comes around, if you really care and love him, it should be ok. Maybe be do more charity? Kind-hearted people usually will be look after by fairies, and kind people will always be beautiful so don't need to worry guys will dump you for a prettier one.

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Added on April 30, 2008, 5:20 pmOnly upper middle

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Added on April 30, 2008, 5:25 pmI am sorry... he's the only son.

Will prepare "Umbrella"... hehe... i will be a dance instructor or counsellor... if finish PhD, will be a lecturer(my bf dream job) in business, there are too many politics and stress.

This post has been edited by SakuraSnow: Apr 30 2008, 11:43 PM

Not every rich people will train their children that way... even they buy stuff for their children, the children must list the pros and cons of getting that thing, does buying that makes you earn more money?(the most important question)
branded stuff are usually come with a certain expected quality, so just get one and can use it for a long time, no need to waste time looking for anoter one... if keep buying, that is a hobby, different case
but branded stuff usually a bit "mature", i prefer mickey mouse or self-paint artistic bag:P (maybe i am not rich... so i just don't like them)
eyewear... i don't think a girl need it, cause the prettiest part of human are the eyes. for guys, yes, cause it makes them look cool~!!! but i prefer guy not wearing them, so i know if they are lying

This post has been edited by SakuraSnow: May 1 2008, 12:20 AM