your bf is earning 10k. average men earning in city is only about 4k. so your bf is kinda at higher earning pace now.. the only thing to raise the family income is making sure you earning 10k as well.. so instead of counting on him for sole income, you should start work harder too.. till earn atleast 8k - 9k

you should be grateful, hence many girls out there would be satisfy if their spouse earns just half of 10k per month. good luck.