Not all chinese ed are the same though...

We cannot label all english ed as the same kind though...

In one coop, there is always a chicken that is different from other chickens inside the coop...

Huh? Why taller than u?

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Added on January 10, 2009, 5:21 pm

Not criticizing or saying "eng ed" is better. Just stating the possibility of why people perceive "chinese ed" more reserved or conservative. Reservations and conservativeness is not necessarily a bad thing. Different people, different behavior and attitude. Just so long everyone gets along.

In the end, regardless of whateve education, if there is chemistry between the gurl and the guy, is already a good start. Dun worry annabelle, its maybe ur soul mate haven't appear yet. Just give it time, it will happen eventually at moments when u least expect it .

Glad that u are .
Something happened lately? Feel like talking about it?

Thats not good =/

I mean the urge of needing one. Thats not good indeed ._."

Trying to make fun of u? Why so bad one?

Not to say good or not good la...but i think to "need" a boyfriend or gurlfren for that matter, should not be the case. After all a bf/gf is not a thing...a bf/gf is suppose to complement u. Is just like having a fren but only more.

Annabelle, just take ur time...no harm in looking but dun think that u "need" to.

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Added on January 10, 2009, 5:59 pm

Well I think u shuld try to figure out why they do so and try to make it such that they kenot make fun of u at all.

Making fun of what? Your size?
I think you need to start losing weight before thinking about getting a partner...
Most guys, including myself, of course, want visually appealing partner (who doesn't?)
Not trying to insult you or make fun of you, just giving you an advice.

What is?

Real friends won't do that to you.
Go out more often and find new ways to socialise. I'm sure something will materialise, just work hard @ it.

eng'ed gal will spend your money til the very last drop.. za also don't have..

Chinese gf better because I am english educated~ chinese gf can help me to read alots of chinese incase I don't understand

HAha ~ last time I did ask her to read and she don't want read,when in good mood then only help me ~
I don't have gf already since 23rd December 2005~ single now but I still prefer chinese ed gf 

yes... u r rite.. n very garang also...

You don't have particular preference on where the guy is educated is it?

Just wondering only, just curious...

Sorry if my question is deemed sensitive 

i just have this feeling of chinese jokes is funnier then english jokes
i just dunno how to explain
its seems that english communication is a little more "serious" compare to chinese which is cuter?
i just cant explain it ! hope you all understand what im trying to say~~
lol

Can I assume you're Chinese-ed then? Well I'm English-ed, and my views are quite different from ur's. I believe that English songs and jokes are better than Chinese ones. Hate watching TVB series(usu have superficial/recurring plots), prefer watching English serials(deeper, more engaging plot). It all depends on what you're used too.

i'm an english ed guy and i would like to ask for chinese ed girls' opinion....

the thing i wanna ask is that will a chinese ed girl accept an english ed guy? i mean i know this girl is chinese ed but i think she doesn't know i'm a bananaman....i can't speak mandarin but i can speak cantonese though...will there be problems in such relationship?

like for example i might know nuts about the songs she likes to listen to, the movies she likes to watch, the books she like to read...etc etc..so if i have no idea of any of her interest, what are we going to talk about?

seriously, will there be a barrier in such relationship? i don't know whether i should make a move on her as i'm afraid that it's not gonna work out...if at the end it things doesn't work out, i might as well not start it as i dont wanna hurt her feelings...sigh

or maybe i'm thinking too negatively and i should give it a try?

The differences don't just apply to girls, apply to guys as well.
I'm speak good Mandarin, but I'm mainly English ed due to the missionary sch education.

Mandarin speaking people:
community based - always move in groups, and always in the same groups. Speak in a subtle, around the bush manner. Have a weird fascination of English speakers' way of thinking. Thinks than English speakers 'action lebih'/LCLY, not as willing to brush up their English and mix with English speakers.

English speaking people:
very individualistic/independent - often seen as a loner by the Mandarin speakers. Vocal & direct - will say whatever they think/feel if needed. Open to suggestions. Have a weird frustration on Mandarin speakers' way of thinking. Generally more willing to learn Mandarin by trial & error from Mandarin speakers.

thanks for the opinion annabelle, well i agree with what you said, if she speaks cantonese/english to me then it shouldn't be a problem i guess..but it's rare to find a chinese ed girl who speak english like you nowadays, i guess it depends very much on family background..

anyway, looking at the bright side, i think it's a good thing as i can learn mandarin from her...just that i'm worried that things might not work out..

Put it this way, even if you speak both and can switch between these different groups effortlessly, your upbringing, experiences bla bla will still make you tend to one of these groups. And only you know which one that is.

If a person speaks both, that would be a big extra!