you know what.....? if he cannot accept you for who YOU ARE, then say sayonara to him. i know its easier said than done, but what more can you do? you yourself hated it when your guy forces you to convert.... and from the way you expressed yourself, i don't believe you'll ever leave christianity. i doubt your guy will leave buddism for you, because if he could do so, he would have done it a long time ago to save all this trouble............

and let's say if you really get married, do you think you'll be happy if he's constantly telling you to convert and stuffs? then by that time maybe you'll start asking him "why should i convert? why don't you convert?" and such... and the marriage, my dear... will be an awful one.