well, the person i kinda like smokes on and off, drinks, and used to gamble a lot and some more used to be a womanizer, can

and i never smoke, can hardly drink and only gamble cards during cny, although i have a reputation to break hearts

for me, it doesn't bother me at all as long as

1. he doesn't smoke too much (one cig every blue moon ok what)
2. he doesn't drink until he gets wasted and/or gets into trouble
3. he doesn't gamble over rm1k money away (but he doesn't gamble anymore)

we can pick and dream of our ideal partner, but in the end if we like someone, means like already lah GG as long as his vices aren't excessive, i don't see what the big deal is




for me though he's a good guy, because talking to him, i know he won't hurt me or anyone else on purpose