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TSAprilGirl
post Feb 2 2008, 12:31 PM, updated 18y ago

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Hi ladies..

Me n my bf ady been together for 5 yrs and now on long distance relationship for bout 3 yrs. He working in singapore while i m in kl. He promised me to come back every month. However, last month he didn't come and visit me due to working reason. I was fine with that reason. So for the past few days, i have been asking him when he plan to come back for cny. He always say dunno.. not sure yet.. maybe fri nite or sat morning, depend on his fren (the driver). I asked him again y'day.. and to my suprise, he told me he is coming back on sun morning. i asked him politely whether he can take a bus back on sat morning or not.. he say "I already promise my fren". Doesn't this seems to be a lame excuse? He is not the driver, he is just a passenger! Even if he take a bus back, that would not affect his fren. Moreover, he still share the traveling cost. Another thing, why not he inform me earlier? I am sure his fren would inform him earlier on bout the plan.

So ladies, do u think this is an acceptable reason for not coming back a day earlier?
TSAprilGirl
post Feb 2 2008, 01:04 PM

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If he inform me earlier, of coz i wont mind. But now he inform me last minute and that is also when i called n asked.
TSAprilGirl
post Feb 2 2008, 01:23 PM

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I agreed that taking bus is very troublesome. But what i am upset bout is late informing. i'm fine with his plan as long as he discuss it with me or at least inform me without having me to open my mouth.


Added on February 2, 2008, 1:29 pm
QUOTE(knightdemon @ Feb 2 2008, 01:10 PM)
maybe they wanna drive back together so they wont feel tired...each can drive halfway mar.. one day earlier or later oso he still coming back mar..

he didnt inform u maybe the decision was made at the very last minute or cud it be earlier n he's busy to tell u bout it..

chill gal...dun so tense..cny's on the way
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coming back 1 day earlier, got extra 1 day to spend ma.. his hometown not in kl, so he is going back to his hometown on cny.. and he also wan to spend time with his frens..

This post has been edited by AprilGirl: Feb 2 2008, 01:29 PM

 

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