if you don't like yourself.. how do you expect others to like you?

this how world works.. it's is called first impression. whether you sink or swim, it all depends on you to live through this world.

once a person realise, by the time one age 70, everyone will be the same, wrinkly old prune. beauty or perfectionist doesn't matter then, personality does. so if your "perfect" guy is a jerk, would you like to live with a jerk for the rest of your life>? once you seen through this, this thread will not matter much.