hi guys...my gf just say no to sex...don't know why she tell me like that?? what do u guys think?? serious talk plz...

This post has been edited by L0rD_NiK0n: Jan 5 2008, 02:13 AM

cause u are a horny ******* who does nothing but want to have sex when u are together

no more romance
no more talking
no more hugging

just sex sex sex >_> . .

because everytime you see her you will .. And she will be

Maybe she is pain at vagina or not feeling uneasy or scare pregnant...

Just rspect...

this is interesting....tell more detail la..wahat happen b4 she said dat.. how we can help..uhuk3

when was the last time you two had it? and do you force her to be on all 4s?

don't think so...a lot talking,romance and hugging are a must for us.
lol...no la...
don't think so..
oh...she say she want to change to a good attitude....i don't know what she talking bout but i think she just thinking for herself...

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Added on January 5, 2008, 2:13 am2 weeks ago...no force la....with will...

This post has been edited by L0rD_NiK0n: Jan 5 2008, 02:13 AM

Maybe she changed her mind. NO PRE-MARITAL SEX

ur not doing her right..


learn moar..lurk moar..

LOL... just give her some time.
Be a GENTLEMAN la bro...

once you try it, u will like it, and u will go on with it...

just tell agree with her 1st....

later on, when the heat comes, HEHEHEHEHEH

dont think so oso...

no la...don't think so....i started think we are not gonna close anymore because she does not want to sex anymore...mean i don't go to her house anymore...don't stay together in room anymore....

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Added on January 5, 2008, 2:19 amreally work ka??give her some time then??
u don't think if just say agree mean she will be like think that i don't want have sex with her anymore??

This post has been edited by L0rD_NiK0n: Jan 5 2008, 02:19 AM

Holy shit. Did you ask why?

u can't satisfied her.....she is finding another guy

i ask why...she told that want to change attitude to be good...
no la...she still say lurve u so much..jz don't want to have sex anymore till marriage...

oklah serious answer seems u seem like the real deal:P

perhaps she wants to see if the relationship is based on love or just sex.

This happened to me, but trust me when kisses starts to get passionate, she forgets about the sex after marriage. Why wouldn't you not go to her room anymore?

She's feeling morally guilty. I think probably she watched the Dr. Chua DVD recently.

Means she found a better guy

Dump her already, there are many available rabbits out there after all

maybe...but i right now i thinking she want to find other....

well, what need to go anymore if can't have sex?? if just want to look, my room is better..

meaning you love her for her ***** and not herself.
well i admit that sex is important but hey, if you love someone its not all about sex, man.
+ no point calling her your girlfriend, you can instead call her your hoe?

i not love her for sex....maybe i just too sad or can't believe she say that.......have some tips for me guys...

The truth!
Aiyak, you go lurk for fubu lorr

if she felt like that, what can i do??

you just gotta leave her more space, respect her decision. one day she might want it again. Sex is just like drugs, once you did it, you crave for more.

Free test drive is over. You either buy the car or get a remote control one or go to another dealership to test drive again!

so for right now just leave her right there and agree with her decision?? can i show her my sadness if she want to sex again by reject it??

haahahha....serius talk plz....

Chill down, doggy... chill

Sex is just a small part in a relationship but it definitely plays a role in maintaining a lasting relationship between u both mates.
Ask yourself if you are passionate about your gf. If sex is just something to do, you might be making a mistake.
Lust and love are 2 different things !!

So, get ur mind straight !!

juz curios..how old are you...

and how much time did u did it wit her from da moment u couple

[is there a time where u really thinking future with her,maybe financial....kids...and all.]

22......not much....when i only go to her house...maybe one a month or like that....yeah lol....she the one i want to marry....but 5 years more...

I was serious. No more milk for you until you buy the cow.

what u mean?? i not understand..

Apparently you don't know the phrase.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free? = Why marry a girl if you can have sex with her already?

because i not want her becoz of sex....because i want her to be my wife

same like buying cow because of meat...not milk...

she is cheating on u
no more feel do with you

but got feel do with the other guy
not me!!!!

We all know that guys naturally like to get into the 'act'..
But girls in general do not really enjoy it..
Most of the time (or should i say all the time ) girls only do it coz they want to keep their bf/husband happy..

Nuff sed, to cut it short, for guys, without sex there can be no romance..
for girls, without romance there can be no sex..

Well, thats what my girl tells me anyway

I think she has somebody else or looking for somebody else..
All she told you are lies..
Anyways, what u mean by sex? Oral sex ora intercourse sex?

maybe ur not satisfied ur gurl, that why she told u that...for me, romance is needed to have sex...without romance, the sex is not enjoyable...

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Added on January 5, 2008, 3:26 amall sex la....except a33h0l3 sex..no...

This post has been edited by L0rD_NiK0n: Jan 5 2008, 03:26 AM

Is there any posibilties that shes having sex with somebody else?
Maybe she doesnt want u to know what happened to her p**sy? due to hard sex with somebody else..
Hmm..

i'm confuse..you said you love her but you are moaning because she doesnt want to have sex with you..so do you love her for the sex or do you REALLY love her?if you REALLY love her you wouldnt bother opening a thread saying that your gf doesnt want to have sex with you for now..so what if no sex?there's a lot of ways to show her that you love her...

This post has been edited by scofield: Jan 5 2008, 03:54 AM

no lar...so sure she not having sex with other..

because i started to think she looking for other....

then if you think she's looking for other, why dont you spy on her..

i agree with scofield,dats wad i had in mind too ;D

i know some people might say its not right to spy on your gf/bf but if you want to know the truth, you have to do it..unless you are already prepare to be dump by her..

senang saja ... she want to spent more time for rest of both of ur life.

she dowant relationship full of sex.later kawin still like couple oni...

try break free, d time she wan .. give it to her...

u oso feel wonderfull, she oso feel wonderfull

serios lah

yea..true..too much sex before marry could be a problem once you are married..no more excitement for sex..

so your relationship seems to be built on sex. How nice...so I'm not surprised that it's now falling apart cos a relationship isn't all about sex

Quick! Get married then you can have sex everyday, then once a week, then once a month then ....

1 week how many times and is condom is on???

dont click here


This post has been edited by zefflodo: Jan 5 2008, 05:57 AM

u must be very ham sup..... always request sex from her

since she say no, then u respect her as bf lar


** if u cannot tahan go to buaya kacang or kuaci from China girl **

this is a good possibility

this is a big time crap. have you ever heard of "I am boring of having sex?"

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some girl might tell u , sex only after marriage ...
and ya da ya da ya bla bla bla

get her into good ambiance , sweet talk her, treat her the best
start to give her erotic kisses and there you go with good foreplay

if she is not seeing someone else, definitely she is not enjoying having sex with you

hmm.. firstly open such a thread to voice out ur dissatisfaction just becoz she does not want to have intimacy with u? gosh!
do you really talk to her nicely and in an understanding manner?
The more you pressure her, the more she feels insecure and hurt as you're not showing your care to her..
As u mentioned, since u both cant make love, and u didnt want to go into her room anymore? .. Hahaa... funny though!
Going into bf/gf's room does not only limited to sexual activities...
Give some time to her and talk to her when both of you are comfortable and ready to talk..
good luck

Trust and respect
See how much you can offer

Agree.

yalo, TS how old r u oh? why still duwan get married?

if u love her, u must respect her...

maybe 1 or 2 weeks, she will request sex with u again later on...

dont worry, giv her some time...as a bf, u must respect what she did!

unless u dont love her anymore.

posting in legendary thread

You guys are speculatating too much.
When a girl says she does not want to have sex, and she loves you its still true.
Or is your relationship so reliant on sex, that not having sex gives you unnecessary doubts such as this.

Consider her damm feelings.
1. She doesn't want the relation to be based on lust and sex
2. She feels guilty
3. She might feel like a slut due to performing constant pre-marital sex.
4. Bring bad name to family if anyone else found out.
5. She is tired. You have too much sexual intercourse with her much too often.
Which will bring that "pleasurable" activity become tiring and stressful. [For the girl]

I don't know why you open thread about this.
You said you open this because you are afraid that you GF might be seeing someone else.
Since when a girl stop giving you sex temporarily ... means she is seeing someone else.
You got your head messed up, get it back straight.
You should only be opening a thread once your GF says "Break Up".


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She probably got advice/scolded by other ppl that she's having too much sex. Maybe her parents know about it.

On a side note, why are you so concerned about sex? Looks like you're the one who's addicted. If she's into someone else, then I doubt she'll still hug/kiss you the same way la. Plus she'll have the textbook excuses to reduce contact with you.

go have sex with another girl and come back sleep with ur gf without sex

No offense but are gals really that rational? I mean they might be, but once they got emo, they lost their mind worse than guy. I am not sure what am i talking about nvm sorry.

Well i think this guy is thinking otherwise, he's feeling weird that why his gf suddenly refuse to have sex with him. Well most people will feel weird if suddenly their partner say this to them i think. Cant blame this guy, maybe to him it's like her gf say dont hold my hand anymore

TOTALLY AGREE
Assuming TS not starting this for the lulz...

She wants this to be a RELATIONSHIP between the two of you. Like @spunkberry also say, relation based on sex will fall apart once d sex stops.

Treat her as a GF. Do things couples do, except for sex, which she request to stop.

When she is ready again (if u play ur cards rite, it will not be long) you will know.

relax loh, sex is only part of life mah.
love her more is more important.

Ur sex life is over dude

you cant say its crap..it depends on the girl itself..depends on what motive they do not want to have sex before getting married..

or u ask her 1 last sex.....but put hidden cam .. after finish, take dat video, c how ur performance.

how gracefully u are? can b true oso.... but remember! not in hotel! hahahaha later u wan to letak jawatan from lowyat haha

She feel u put in just to test the atmosphere.
too fast u take out oledi.

How.. if she test me ?

hey bro...i also have sex life with my gf also...my gf sometimes also think the same way...

but i often tell her that...sex is just part of the relationship...is not so important but yet it also make a quite impact...coz making love can really spice up the relationship alot...

on other hand...make sure u treat her very good also...give her the good protection...accompany her to do body check up...especially her little sister check up bro...hehe

there isn't enough data to do analysis that doesn't seem like pure speculation.

1. did she say no sex with you ever? did she say it to your face or via sms or whatever?
2. right after making this statement what happened? what do you say or do? what did she say or do?

surely you must have asked her why not? was she silent?
don't you think you should get her reason/s instead of collecting countless possibilities to spin in your mind from here?

just respect her decision la...

if u really cant "tahan",go f*** with a whore la...

first is she feel guilty ( you all not yet get married right? )
secondly is your problem,maybe something happened to you i don't know..
thridly is her problem.. something happened to her i don't know..

oh ya.. why don't you just ask her?

i just make conclusion just to agree with her decision...she say wait 5 years more..because 5 years more we gonna married...do u think i make the right decision just to agree with her?? she still let me kiss her....

Yes! agree is the right decision. good 4 u

wow so sure 5 yrs more get married =.="...TS how old r u?

was she a virgin before she had sex with you ? if she was, then all the talk about feeling guilty about doing something her parents or God do not approve of it might be true.

but if she was not a virgin, probability is that morality of sex is not the issue. she is just falling out of love with you bro.

for most innocent girls, sex only if she loves a guy. if she dun love you no more, say bye bye to sex.

You suck on bed that's y.......

yeah now TS can go create another ID and start another thread...

Dun understand why some guys cannot tahan from having sex (I didn't generalize all). Watch License to Wed. You'll find out what is real relationship.

are you saying he's faking it? this thread? i don't care either way. i give opinion and fget away scott free. only 2sen.

TS,maybe she is sien already with ur current skills & performance.So,u better to some research

hmm mod on holiday?

no sex.. no life

TS,u must be a man! warn her tat if u dun gimme wat I want...i go for "outsource"

the conclusion so far from me is both of you are stupid, naive, immature bf and gf (no offense), cheers

y not get married?

off topic:" where is icyz? havent seen her awhile?? kena banhammered a?

I dont really see there's a reason to put sex in a must list in a relationship.. who says a relationship needs sex to be romantic? Think with your head and not there la dude... i mean, sorry no offence... so you're saying that couples who did not involve in sex activity is not romantic and their r'ship wont last long?? I really dont get it... maybe u have a better and clearer answer yourself but what you're telling us here.. really made me think that u just want her for SEX..

where got girls always want sex de? lol..

IMO i think your lust for her is even more than your love.

by the time she wants it with you, you turn her down, all u gotta do is go home and fap yourself.

girls be greatful that your man still want do it with u

u should be more worry if he dont, after awhile he will b just like Dr Chua
meeting up with his "personal friend"

Thread started
looks ur gal got another bf already

Outsourcing very 'heng' oh? After she tangkap your video, you got press conference of your own

do yiu guys know, a girl needs a better situation, mod, feeling; unlikely male, male can have sex everywhere even anytime. female cannot

Please 'X' The appropriate choice

[ ]Dump her and find a new1 for sax
[ ] Start paying for sax
[ ] Make her horny till she cant resist u
[X] Suicide

Oh wai....... U dont have to choose...its already there for u..

Wait 5 years? If you can, find a new gf! Seriously.

dude, u damn lame la if a gf told u this, u must have done something not rite during lovemaking,
try to satisfy her more, let her enjoy more abit, not just only yourself
then maybe next time she'll be the initiator ... hohoho

ha ha this one is the win

give your gf some fresh come . she'll scream for joy and have sex with you right away. Bad thing is you're dry but wth, just do it again

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