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Serious gf said no anymore to sex

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post Jan 5 2008, 09:19 AM

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QUOTE(TwistedInsanity @ Jan 5 2008, 09:03 AM)
You guys are speculatating too much.
When a girl says she does not want to have sex, and she loves you its still true.
Or is your relationship so reliant on sex, that not having sex gives you unnecessary doubts such as this.

Consider her damm feelings.
1. She doesn't want the relation to be based on lust and sex
2. She feels guilty
3. She might feel like a slut due to performing constant pre-marital sex.
4. Bring bad name to family if anyone else found out.
5. She is tired. You have too much sexual intercourse with her much too often.
    Which will bring that "pleasurable" activity become tiring and stressful. [For the girl]

I don't know why you open thread about this.
You said you open this because you are afraid that you GF might be seeing someone else.
Since when a girl stop giving you sex temporarily ... means she is seeing someone else.
You got your head messed up, get it back straight.
You should only be opening a thread once your GF says "Break Up".

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No offense but are gals really that rational? I mean they might be, but once they got emo, they lost their mind worse than guy. I am not sure what am i talking about doh.gif nvm sorry.

Well i think this guy is thinking otherwise, he's feeling weird that why his gf suddenly refuse to have sex with him. Well most people will feel weird if suddenly their partner say this to them i think. Cant blame this guy, maybe to him it's like her gf say dont hold my hand anymore hmm.gif
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post Jan 5 2008, 09:26 AM

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QUOTE(TwistedInsanity @ Jan 5 2008, 09:03 AM)
You guys are speculatating too much.
When a girl says she does not want to have sex, and she loves you its still true.
Or is your relationship so reliant on sex, that not having sex gives you unnecessary doubts such as this.

Consider her damm feelings.
1. She doesn't want the relation to be based on lust and sex
2. She feels guilty
3. She might feel like a slut due to performing constant pre-marital sex.
4. Bring bad name to family if anyone else found out.
5. She is tired. You have too much sexual intercourse with her much too often.
    Which will bring that "pleasurable" activity become tiring and stressful. [For the girl]

I don't know why you open thread about this.
You said you open this because you are afraid that you GF might be seeing someone else.
Since when a girl stop giving you sex temporarily ... means she is seeing someone else.
You got your head messed up, get it back straight.
You should only be opening a thread once your GF says "Break Up".

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TOTALLY AGREE
Assuming TS not starting this for the lulz...

She wants this to be a RELATIONSHIP between the two of you. Like @spunkberry also say, relation based on sex will fall apart once d sex stops.

Treat her as a GF. Do things couples do, except for sex, which she request to stop.

When she is ready again (if u play ur cards rite, it will not be long) you will know.
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post Jan 5 2008, 10:42 AM

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relax loh, sex is only part of life mah.
love her more is more important.
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post Jan 5 2008, 11:02 AM

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Ur sex life is over dude
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post Jan 5 2008, 11:44 AM

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QUOTE(PrinceHamsap @ Jan 5 2008, 06:41 AM)
this is a big time crap. have you ever heard of "I am boring of having sex?"
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you cant say its crap..it depends on the girl itself..depends on what motive they do not want to have sex before getting married..
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post Jan 5 2008, 11:47 AM

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or u ask her 1 last sex.....but put hidden cam .. after finish, take dat video, c how ur performance.

how gracefully u are? can b true oso.... but remember! not in hotel! hahahaha later u wan to letak jawatan from lowyat haha
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post Jan 5 2008, 11:58 AM

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She feel u put in just to test the atmosphere.
too fast u take out oledi.

How.. if she test me ?
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post Jan 5 2008, 12:05 PM

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hey bro...i also have sex life with my gf also...my gf sometimes also think the same way...

but i often tell her that...sex is just part of the relationship...is not so important but yet it also make a quite impact...coz making love can really spice up the relationship alot...

on other hand...make sure u treat her very good also...give her the good protection...accompany her to do body check up...especially her little sister check up bro...hehe
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QUOTE(L0rD_NiK0n @ Jan 5 2008, 02:04 AM)
hi guys...my gf just say no to sex...don't know why she tell me like that?? what do u guys think?? serious talk plz...
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there isn't enough data to do analysis that doesn't seem like pure speculation.

1. did she say no sex with you ever? did she say it to your face or via sms or whatever?
2. right after making this statement what happened? what do you say or do? what did she say or do?

surely you must have asked her why not? was she silent?
don't you think you should get her reason/s instead of collecting countless possibilities to spin in your mind from here?
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:07 PM

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QUOTE(L0rD_NiK0n @ Jan 5 2008, 02:04 AM)
hi guys...my gf just say no to sex...don't know why she tell me like that?? what do u guys think?? serious talk plz...
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just respect her decision la... nod.gif

if u really cant "tahan",go f*** with a whore la... cool2.gif
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:15 PM

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first is she feel guilty ( you all not yet get married right? )
secondly is your problem,maybe something happened to you i don't know..
thridly is her problem.. something happened to her i don't know..

oh ya.. why don't you just ask her?
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:24 PM

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i just make conclusion just to agree with her decision...she say wait 5 years more..because 5 years more we gonna married...do u think i make the right decision just to agree with her?? she still let me kiss her....
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:26 PM

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QUOTE(L0rD_NiK0n @ Jan 5 2008, 01:24 PM)
i just make conclusion just to agree with her decision...she say wait 5 years more..because 5 years more we gonna married...do u think i make the right decision just to agree with her?? she still let me kiss her....
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Yes! agree is the right decision. good 4 u cool.gif
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:34 PM

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wow so sure 5 yrs more get married =.="...TS how old r u?
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post Jan 5 2008, 01:37 PM

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was she a virgin before she had sex with you ? if she was, then all the talk about feeling guilty about doing something her parents or God do not approve of it might be true.

but if she was not a virgin, probability is that morality of sex is not the issue. she is just falling out of love with you bro.

for most innocent girls, sex only if she loves a guy. if she dun love you no more, say bye bye to sex.
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You suck on bed that's y.......

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post Jan 5 2008, 01:44 PM

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QUOTE(beelzebob13 @ Jan 5 2008, 01:26 PM)
Yes! agree is the right decision. good 4 u  cool.gif
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yeah now TS can go create another ID and start another thread... tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Jan 5 2008, 02:19 PM

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Dun understand why some guys cannot tahan from having sex (I didn't generalize all). Watch License to Wed. You'll find out what is real relationship. nod.gif
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QUOTE(vey99 @ Jan 5 2008, 01:44 PM)
yeah now TS can go create another ID and start another thread... tongue.gif  tongue.gif  tongue.gif  tongue.gif
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rclxub.gif are you saying he's faking it? this thread? i don't care either way. i give opinion and fget away scott free. only 2sen.
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post Jan 5 2008, 02:43 PM

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TS,maybe she is sien already with ur current skills & performance.So,u better to some research tongue.gif

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