relationship r....
normal lo..
coz she is at Sg , cry in front ..when we chatting using webcam..
huh!..
wat a shock..
make me wanna cry also..hee

Expect only -->

-Bring me kai kai n shopping , he pays (I dun think would ever happen)
-Go for buffet / jap rest

Just hug me and buy me sushi dinner.

This is very subjective since it depends on the girls themselves.

For me,
I'd prefer for the guys to leave me alone for awhile.
But still drop me a line to tell me that he cares.

Guys and Girls here. i need ur help or more of an advice. let me start my story first. me and my girlfriend are together for 4 years now. we've been through a lot of ups and downs together. we love each other enough said. recently starting this year, i've got myself a permenant job and she furthering her studies in UK. At first we take the long distance relationship quite well with communicating via phone, sms, and mostly instant messenger. i usually woke up in 4am just to have a chat with her through IM until 8am. she had a trouble adjusting in new world with different environment, weather, no friends or aquintance, and most biggest is homesick. Things getting uglier when my job starting to demand more of my attention and got the better of me when a new project were assigned to me. i'm starting to lose focus on her as my boss often breathing down my neck for progress. i've started to woke up around 6.30am as i often sleep late around 2am or above due to overtime work. things were not so bright on her side either as she's getting more homesick, miss her family, friends, me and her experiment (she's doing PHD by the way) doesn't produce result like the way she've wanted; and i'm not there to cheer her up when she's down. so, after awhile she's beginning to act cold towards me, saying things that is 'empty' and hurting me. her words often makes me feel guilty. she also stop saying that she love me. i was wondering where could i've gone wrong. then after yesterday slow talk with her, she finally admit she's being cold because she doesn't want to hurt herself. she was crying a whole week last week and tell me that she thinks i'm not ready to be her gf. i was shock and i asked her why but i never get the answer. so guys and girls here, i need your advice on what should i do now. i don't want to end this relationship. not like this. thanks guys.

when i m depressed,

i'm longing to a hug n some condolence words from my bf..

that's enough for me..

haha

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Added on March 24, 2008, 12:41 pmuMmm..
i think u hav to discuss wif her on this issue or ur relationship might b in a danger.
A bf is deemed to spare some times to concern n accompany his gf notwithstanding how busy he is wif his work..
girls tend to feel hurted if theirs bfs only care for their work n likewise,neglecting her.
communicaiton n understanding are crucial in a romance n also, to maintain a relationship. Nevertheless, v wil argue wif each other upon some small matters if v both lack of communication.
both muz b honest enough to convey thier thinkings n feeling.Otherwise,there wil b a lot of unhapiness n quarelling happened btw u n her.
anyway, juz talk to her n find out te best solution~
goodluck ^^

This post has been edited by stephanie0721: Mar 24 2008, 12:41 PM

thank you so much for a very good advice. i will put it into action right away.

tell her a funny story about how the buay-

want the guy that i love to hug me tight tight..

sayang me...

100% useful and effective trick

ask her to go for shopping spree and u will pay for everything

7/10 wan hug hug and pay for shopping

izzit the most effective trick ?

if yes then i have to master the bear hug technique and find more money

2 things,

If a girl feeling down, she herself need to know how to settle her own feeling problem and not just wait somebody go to her and confront her cause if she is mature, she should know this kind of problem created by her own self should not drag other people into trouble especially when that girl like to scold or make other people bad mood when she is in that kind of mood.

When a a guy or someone go and confront the girl, she should make herself in better mood because there is someone who willing to help and care for her.

Anyway the main thing is girl should not always do that, especially those who adi make it a habit and think that "this is pretty common and guy should think how to solve it, there is nothing wrong bout it".

peace....=p

a big hug..but keep quiet!just let her know u're there for her..but not there to nag her!dun keep on asking her what happened..just a big nice hug!

hei ~bj~, hug me !!

not again


BRING IT CUTTIE PIG

hahaha..cannot la..porkchop too fat to fight la..get tired easily!!!

I shall call u 'porky'


see guys, this how to treat a woman whe she's down !!! HAHA !!

u failed..so GET LOST!!!





hahahahahahahahaha..dun listen to JonSpark

bo bian la.he's too pro..and his advises r good SOMETIMES..

need a little help her..wat if the girl is a spicy chili padi? altho never expect tat kinda girl to be down..(i never actually c her in bad mood or sad after knowing her so years,just for precaution purpose..gotta be same class with her for another 3 years)

This post has been edited by jianjie: Jul 15 2008, 06:27 PM