TS,

When u can wrote all everything about him,I guess you already in doubt whether he will be your husband-to-be,whether is he the one. If you are still very sure he's the ONE,you wouldnt write all these.Basically,u already got your decision but you need more advices as u are in doubt.
There are only 2 ways,either you just tolerate everything even you lose all your friends or you walk out of this relationship. Good luck!