Depends on what item. If it's DVDs, CDs, etc then they probably won't accept any excuse. If it's a football jersey, same thing. Just depends on how much they're gonna charge you.They might drop from 40% to 30% but you'll still pay.
I personally just let the pos fellas negotiate. He'll go talk to them, come back with a value. I'll say still too high, he'll go talk again and try to get it lowered. But prepare to pay big if the item cost is high.
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