well I understand that there are some things that are just too awkward for guys to talk about with girls so...
but my bf pretty much tells me everything except the dirty secrets he most definitely has. XD

when your man comes home from work, he's stressed out and of course, when you try to talk to him, you try to make him talk to you about what he's so stressed out about. Men don't like to do that. We as women, always discuss our stresses. Men only do this if they need another man's help. SO what he does is he shuts down. When he does this, LEAVE HIM ALONE.

If you want to talk to him about your day while he's in this state, give him a specific time interval that you want his full attention and he'll be glad to do so. Don't talk to him about your troubles and ask him about his troubles when he's quiet.

When he's with his friends, they talk about everything BUT stuff at work that's stressing him out. Obviously, they would have lots to talk about. He's not shutting you out, but when a man is stressed out, all he wants to do is FORGET about it.

This post has been edited by spunkberry: Jun 6 2008, 11:29 PM