the reason i don share my most of my problem with my girl :

a) sometime it is a small matter, but when she over reacted, it became a big problem

b) most of the time she could not give me constructive suggestion, instead she will telling "don be sad lar, it will be fine", "why you so stressed? try to get a sleep and it will be better." What i need is not comforting when i share my problem, i need constructive comments and critics which most of the female tend to lack of. (sorry to offend the female)

c) when i share my problem, she ended up more worried than me, and now i have an extra problem to dealt with

i know this does not apply to every girls out there, not every girl is as naive as her, but at least this is the reason i tend to keep my problem to myself and perhaps, few of my fellow out there who is more matured.