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KVReninem
post Nov 19 2007, 07:09 PM

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QUOTE(daminoster @ Nov 19 2007, 06:46 PM)
yes lo, that y make me so unconfident...... why?
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well; when he is down...try to be soft abit with him and be little more confident of urself.. icon_rolleyes.gif
sometimes; he will look up to you as his cave...
try slowly to find out why ..but dont make him upset when you finding it out..
coz guys dont like girls to know their problem and always he tend to hide and let it cave in and move on with it sweat.gif
as time goes by; the situation get worst; he will show signs; tats whr u have to be aware off

so daminoster; you know wat to do yea... icon_rolleyes.gif

KVReninem
post Nov 20 2007, 05:56 AM

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QUOTE(hueyhsiang @ Nov 19 2007, 10:20 PM)
totally true man...aihz..guys..wat u all want?? i'm so confuse now...do this also wrong..do that also wrong...pls la tell us whats on ur mind.we're cant read ur mind..i dun ask much he said i dun appreciate..i ask too much he like thinking i'm very annoying..like asking me to leave him alone..aihz...dunno what he wants la..... rclxub.gif
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this is very indeeed playful..
playful...
while playing *hide and seek* he is just also playing with ur feeling...

KVReninem
post Nov 20 2007, 06:13 PM

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Added on November 20, 2007, 10:02 am
KVReninem,

Are you guy or girl? Thanks for your suggesstion..actually i know what should i do, but always i already do my best to be gf roles, at the end,you would never got appreciate by him, but blamed??
felt so sad sometimes, that y i am here to asked. 
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i rather keep low profile ~
how hard you try in your relationship; hopefully dont it end miserably later ..

a guy will appreciate a girl very much only when she is gone~... smile.gif



KVReninem
post Nov 21 2007, 06:40 PM

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QUOTE(dachlain @ Nov 21 2007, 05:35 PM)
To TS,
I think i can help you in this case. Erm...not that your bf doesnt wanna share your problem with you. Sometimes it is hard for them to express their feelings. It will be easier for them to express it among male friends than female friends especially gf.

The harder you force them to share out their problem,the annoying they will be and there will be an argument.

Just let them be. When they are ready to talk,they will. Dont put pressure on them. Sometimes they can behave like a little boy and wanted to be pampered....hahaha..You can do your part here.

They will be ok. Just try to be understanding and thats all.

Hope this will help smile.gif
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yea; you are right..most guy sometime really like little boy.

KVReninem
post Nov 22 2007, 01:10 PM

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QUOTE(daminoster @ Nov 22 2007, 12:16 PM)
hello to all members who replied my questions...
first i would like to thanks to all of  your answers here, yours comment, yours suggestion is useful for me. now i know what should i do,i found that actually all the answer here is almost familiar, and it is true for all guyz who trouble in work,love,money, & etc, they would really choose to be silent and dont want to speak out to make you worried. For this, i think i need to learn to be understanding gf,and try to accept for those case.

Actually i did very confuse these few days, because i'm thinking that should i stop for this relationships. We did always argues, the reason is we lost our communication skills to each others,even a small case we would argue as well... (That y i m posting a question forum here to discuss). After read all your replied, i found that actually some of peoples is still facing the same question like me. Now, i'm trying to solve our problems slowly, and trying to cancel the mind of <STOP> and <END>

Because If i'm really choose to end this relationship due to those situations, others people would scold me. They said i'm too happiness to had him...? hmm.... others views and myself Felt is different ?Correct?

Anyway,THANKS YOU ya.......
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well; there is always way to solve problem damninoster =)
boys are ego....ego tats keep strong within
sometime; we do let our loves one know
you gotta pampered him...make him comfortable and enjoy first...dont attack him straight..attack softly abit...

he will not care about u at the end..if u keep asking and bugging and later relationship end..

boy always got their thinking too.
not easy if unless u got lotsa boy friend
a boy will just flush out in bar than infront of wife or gf...regarding the issue they faced..
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good luck

 

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