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Life as a father - ME time vs spend time with kid
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 Dec 20 2025, 01:14 PM
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Dec 20 2025, 01:20 PM
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cherish the time with your kiddo when they're young......missed it n you will not get tos time n memories back
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Dec 20 2025, 01:27 PM
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QUOTE(submergedx @ Dec 20 2025, 10:24 AM) This is starter only Wait till tuition, and other classes start, it's not me time, it's driving timewait until RM2000 per month for montessori, toys and necessities RM12,000 primary school fee and RM50,000 per year for university OWAI   My weekend is even more tiring than workdays lol 9am driving starts, back home at sun down Plus the amount of money spend on child, then you will start think when only can upgrade pc again or have budget for it This post has been edited by khtan2000: Dec 20 2025, 01:29 PM |
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Dec 20 2025, 01:32 PM
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When they are still little they will stick to u more.
Once they reached 8 above they will do their own things already and started to ignore u. So treasure every moment with them. |
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Dec 20 2025, 01:42 PM
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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Dec 20 2025, 12:40 PM) Now u r pak guard? Nope . Working in extraction plant . Engineering . |
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Dec 20 2025, 01:43 PM
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My me time is when kids n wife go to sleep. They all must sleep early. It's a family rule
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Dec 20 2025, 01:46 PM
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spend some time for yourself too, when I saw many uncles in old folks, feel sad. They are waiting for their child come for a visit and some child prefer to settle oversea
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Dec 20 2025, 01:59 PM
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If u r puas u will have way more fun
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Dec 20 2025, 03:53 PM
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QUOTE This is starter only to further add, if your kid diagnosed with autism, this can easily become RM3k min.wait until RM2000 per month for montessori, toys and necessities this is not like down syndrome where it's 100% genetic. you'll only know autism positive/negative once kid between age 2-6 This post has been edited by Medufsaid: Dec 20 2025, 03:53 PM |
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Dec 20 2025, 04:16 PM
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Demo edition. Wait till you tried the full game and the DLCs later.
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Dec 20 2025, 04:22 PM
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True la. Nowadays no joy in gaming anymore. Back of my head whenever i "enjoy" gaming i feel worse because that enjoyment should be shared with my kids.
Also games now really not in healthy ecosystem. Most need you to spend insane amount of hours and attention. Because most want to make u as frustrated to trigger the competitive beast inside of u and then passively trying to coerce u into spending the right amount of money to "save time". My current "me time" is now 11pm when everyone finally asleep, mostly spent on ironing clothes while watching some free and easy movies. Rewatching futurama and south park is surprisingly refreshing. |
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Dec 20 2025, 05:29 PM
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congrats to you
my son is about the same age (turns 3 in march) i still play some games during his nap time |
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Dec 20 2025, 09:43 PM
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QUOTE(CeDhhVss @ Dec 20 2025, 09:51 AM) Hi gais BTW you can start gaming switch 2 with your 6years old kid with Mario KartJust sharing my journey Now I know why some people getting slowly leaving their own hobby and me time. It's because the realisation that, the time spent with their kids cannot be brought back. i've lost the thought of gaming, even console, pc, or mobile gaming does not attracts me anymore. i'm sure down the line, i will return back playing games. but for now, i rather see my kid grow up, play with me. the joy to see his smile running up to me shouting "daddy!" when i got back from work. that's the best feeling ever. sure financially it's not easy. if i calculate the monthly bajet, easily i can have a good gaming pc in 6 months. but, cannot compare time with my boy, my junior. he is 2.5 years now.  for those new fathers out there, be patient. find a channel to share the struggles and keep going. fun times to hangout with certain family games |
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