Yesterday me n my wife talking about one of our family members has affair at age 50 and he has 2 daughters who married and his wife is 46 sad. the thing is, his daughters doesn't know about it because they are living overseas

So female n male tell your opinions

normal n healthy uncle activity

But his wife pity lor

same like gamble in casino, when u win there must be someone losing

but not all like to gamble, so basically there is some good husband n some bad husband

btw female also cheat not male only

how you know is sad, maybe both of them no more love

why this is not at kopitiam section

men and women have responsibilities. Often times people only show the good facade to the public. And once they suppress their desires it will transmit to other part of source. Having affairs is just one of the ways to release the tension built up overtime. Human psyche cannot withstand it has to be released

People often loses control to the normal life stress. Therefore in order to have control back, they want to seek fulfilment outside of leisure activity such as doing drugs, unwillingly knowing this kind of activity will eventually bring oneself to sorrow and emptiness.

But emptiness itself, doesn't mean it's necessarily bad. It's just one way of living. And on the other extreme, some people think being overly positive about life is the only way to live a good life. This kind of people only live though their lens and unforgiving other people experiences. It's also an unconscious way of exerting own shadow the other people

There is religion men can marry more than1 if he can afford it...'nuff said