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post Nov 23 2025, 11:47 AM, updated 10h ago

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To those who still have bad living habits
like smoking, drinking or cheating with your spouse in a marriage
my dad just got diagnosed with heart disease recently
he couldn't move his feet at all
after decades of smoking multiple cigarettes per day

let me realize
the money you earned today
cannot compensate for your future medical costs for the most part
so no matter how hardworking you try to portray
how nice you want to protect your fellows
the most important in life is
making yourself happy first (be own priority) before anyone
I'm not saying be a completely selfish non compassionate being
but don't succumb to your parent/superior/peer pressure
just because they point something to you
doesn't mean you have to follow their bullshit

Sila bincangkan
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post Nov 23 2025, 12:03 PM

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QUOTE(-PuPu^ZaPruD3r- @ Nov 23 2025, 12:00 PM)
I smoke and drink everyday.. Live life to the fullest... Some ppl who smoke and drink live longer than those healthy ppl smile.gif

Gambling and women are my other vices as well tongue.gif
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life is an unknown
but car accident that leads to death is karma
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post Nov 23 2025, 12:13 PM

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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Nov 23 2025, 12:06 PM)
You prepare your own retirement.

If u suffering when u are old its on you 99% of the time.

Your children treat y exactly as how u treated them as they grow up.

Many ppl love their kids in the wrong way. Moderation is the key. For example Giving them handphones and unlimited screen time is not the good kind of love. You do it because you love yourself, u want ez life, u want instant gratification.
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I understood that if someone has weak belief system
no matter they buy how many cars
no matter they change how many jobs
no matter whether they're single or married with kids

they will back to square or still be sentenced to face the reality
a person can spend money on ktv girls everyday to numb himself
but he cannot avoid to face the emotional death incoming
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post Nov 23 2025, 12:29 PM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ Nov 23 2025, 12:24 PM)
"doesn't mean you have to follow their bullshit"

This statement makes assumptions all parents and every advice is bullshit.
Typical social media self affirming bullshit.
What if it is all your wild desires that is the bullshit ?
In the end you have to take responsibility of your own life. Don't put it on your parents
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their bullshit is coming from limiting beliefs
that's why when I hear the marketing video from IG
I smell bullshit because they can only say it from their own perspective

and own perspective can also not derived from their own experiences. In today eyes, everybody can fake their own shit. And it's up to each individual to detect those out
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post Yesterday, 08:25 AM

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QUOTE(kamfoo @ Nov 23 2025, 05:19 PM)
How old is your father and what vaccine did he take?
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60 years old only, he's not even chubby sized
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post Yesterday, 10:16 AM

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QUOTE(WongTheThief @ Nov 24 2025, 10:05 AM)
I don't smoke and drink

Except maybe spending too much money on gacha games, but at least that would make myself happy and not causing other people trouble (other than myself that is)

Used to spend at least ~RM500 monthly, but now already cut a lot, for some months also tried not to spend anything and just be F2P
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It's just another self compensation way
If you can use the money spent on gacha games on gym or buying new clothes, I guess your life shall be better

It's just perspective imo
do you want a short term gratification or long term vision
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post Yesterday, 02:29 PM

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QUOTE(SevenTwentyOne @ Nov 24 2025, 11:37 AM)
Some ppl drink and smoke live till ripe age
some ppl ran marathon and collapse due to heart attack
sometimes it is about genetic lottery
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the sad thing about life is
most people worked their whole life thinking that money could save them from shit things occurrence
when it happened baru they realize they can't even afford the medical costs

so what's the point of overworking for the whole life? Lol

 

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