I don't think you're being completely honest with why you're being labelled as immature. My guess its nothing to do with being "young at heart", but you really being immature.

Otherwise, why would you not be clear about it in the first post but skirt around it?

What I'm seeing, is a lot of projection with little grounding.

You kinda give off the same vibes as this dude:

I literally showed you the behavior

Look at how that person is talking, not what he is saying. Especially the last bit.. you're giving off similar vibes. Saying feel good words, without anything backing those words, just feels like empty talk.

Remember, you're the one who said you're being labeled immature. Not idealistic, not fun, but immature. People usually associate youthfulness with fun, and idealism with naivety, but neither of which are typically seen as immature, especially when you seemingly have the mature aspects of adulthood nailed down.

Just like people who call themselves "nice guys" normally aren't really nice guys, saying you're "young at heart" doesn't mean you are. There's something else signalling immaturity to other people.

Why are you still stuck on this? Totally missing the point.

I'm asking you to look at that person's behavior, the networth topic is irrelevant.


I know, that's why they didn't label you fun/playful. They labelled you immature.


You said in your first post that you're being labeled immature because you're young at heart.

I'm telling you, that is not why you're being called immature.


I can already see why people think you're immature, this quoted line is the perfect example. Can you see the immaturity in it?

That's not the issue, its a small part of an issue but if you fix your core problems it will no longer be an issue.

So far, I'm the only one who's actually highlighting your blind spots, but you refuse to address it. Its as though you cannot accept/see yourself in a negative light, you need to somehow put a positive spin on it e.g. "I'm not immature, I'm young at heart" or "i do <negative thing> sometimes". Just like that guy in the video I linked.

I even point blank, quoted your sentence and pointed that the immaturity is apparent in the sentence; asked you if you could see it, and you completely ignored it and chose to deflect with "I over-explain sometimes" which had nothing to do with what I asked you.

Do you see the problem?

or not taking accountability, cannot admit they're wrong, etc.

He already exhibited that behavior in his first post, and confirmed it several times

If you have a blind spot, and I point our the blind spot to you, but you refuse to see it and act like that spot doesn't even exist and change the topic.. is it still a blind spot?

TS likely has another condition he may not be aware of, and I suspect he has it.

Thanks for the vote of confidence