what are you looking for in a relationship

if you say that you lack sexual experience, then do you want to start practicing it?

are you relatively physically healthy

are you looking to settle down and start a family.

if so then you need to ensure that you can continue to support your child after retirement age of 60

TS, i can see that you really mean it when you say that you are young at heart.

unfortunately, as I have told many of my younger female colleagues / friends in the past, no matter how young you look IC never lie.

your current approach to dating is more suitable for someone who is still in the 20s or early 30s at most.

once you get into your mid 30s and in your case already 40s, the approach has to change to something more practical, realistic and serous.

if you follow your approach, it will take you some time to really find your partner, settled down and eventually have kids.

by then, you could be already close to 48 to 50 and by the time you retire, your kids are only like 10 to 12

also how old is your partner going to be

if you find a more matured partner, they won't wait for you.

your targets should be female about 10 years younger than you so can still have kids

but only get married if you want kids, else better stay single and go for Sugar baby

good luck TS, don't feel down or suicidal

live your life day by day

what you need to do first is to get laid

and another point, do you really know your sexual orientation and preference

could be one of the reasons keeping you down


This post has been edited by cfa28: Sep 29 2025, 01:30 PM

the key to speed dating is to say Yes to as many girls that you meet. i got friends who met their partner through speed dating