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TSyungkit14
post Sep 24 2025, 08:41 PM, updated 3 months ago

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i have been in a long thought do beauty privilege exist in relationship as in the usual handsome ,pretty individual always gets the attentions, preety ones gets the guy protecting like a bodyguard. girl following them home etc?

While those average ones we need to work hard ,get her/him attention etc. NOT pointing to fairness in the world ,i am just curious the cycle of it ?


Like if we speak of that Kelantan doctor affair with just a few visit the ladies would be wetting for him and even the wife forgave him which i find it interesting.


where else some average people just gave up because they didn't expect what they want and go single forever because why not ?

Feeling perplexed on the hopes too.




TSyungkit14
post Sep 24 2025, 11:30 PM

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QUOTE(Sihambodoh @ Sep 24 2025, 09:46 PM)
Yes beauty does give you the advantage. Actually many advantages. But beauty isn't all. And best of all, beauty doesn't last. If you are only pretty but you cannot connect with another person deeply, the relationship isn't going to last.

Do we want a shallow relationship? Or do we want a relationship built of true love? If you want to be loved, first you must be a loving person. Beauty has nothing to do with it.
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so as how monetary is I suppose but how do we even we love when we are even denied to love?
TSyungkit14
post Sep 28 2025, 11:42 PM

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QUOTE(nihility @ Sep 25 2025, 11:51 AM)
TS, you really think it is beauty that makes the difference?

Let me give you some hypothetical scenarios:

Beauty, but decision-making at the worst level — do you think this is desirable?

Average, but decision-making at the highest level — do you think this is desirable?

Now let me give you a real-world analogy.

A new development: the developer builds first-class infrastructure and facilities (beauty). But after handing over the keys to the buyers, what happens if the buyers carry a third-world mentality? Every day they fight, argue, and refuse accountability. They don’t want to pay maintenance fees, the common facilities are neglected, and everyone says, “not my property.” Yet the repair funds come from the JMB — which is also the buyers’ money. With this lack of awareness(brain), what do you think will happen to those first-class facilities after 5 or 10 years? Isn’t the trend predictable?

You may ask: why give this example to reflect on human beauty?
Then let me arrange the comparison in parallel for you.

If beauty — the physique granted by Heaven — is paired with a third-world mentality, where the person decides daily not to eat healthily and not to work out, what will happen to this body in 5 or 10 years? Will this beauty last? Isn’t the trend predictable?

So tell me: is it the beauty of the final product that is truly attractive, or the beauty of decision-making that creates and sustains the kind of beauty that endures?

Is privilege found in beauty, or in the brain?

Beauty without brain = not a privilege, only a passing gift.
Beauty with brain = Heaven’s blessing.
Ugly without brain = Hell’s curse.
Ugly with brain = Earth’s blessing.
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idk they always the leverage over everything

 

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