QUOTE(Takudan @ Sep 26 2025, 01:58 AM)
I have a pretty female friend who also works part time as model. She's introverted but well spoken and down to earth. Not sure if this is an IT field thing-- I've seen several cases of pretty ladies who know their asset and utilize it: they "recruit an army of simps", in Chinese one would say Guanyin recruiting soldiers. She's not one of them.
Ironically for her, it's totally the opposite of (1). She's almost 30 and still single. It's as if guys automatically retreat because they think they don't deserve her. Is that (1) and (2) only meant for guys? Lol.
Well, she did have several who expressed interest, but apparently it's not the way she could accept: she's slow to warm up, so the sudden confessions are always "pushed back" -- not a flat out rejection from her side, but the men would always take it as a rejection.
the more females get approached by average-to-low quality guys, the more they will feel guarded as it can become part of their subconscious hence "auto" rejection
Its like you get approached by a random promoter at mall, you knew what's coming out from their mouth within split seconds. Therefore it's important for people to be aware and understand from other person perspective or intern experience
It's not a sudden confession if the girl already likes the guy. The matter is, most guys come from a place of neediness and desperate trying to "close" a relationship ASAP. Whether it's a kiss/sex/or a serious relationship label. And the girl immediately gets triggered and couldn't help with the response
Sep 25 2025, 01:35 PM
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