TLDW:

- Poligami cuba kalau pompuan boleh, laki takkan agree
- takda duit jangan kahwin + anak ramai, nanti cerai
- jangan rush kahwin
- kewajipan hantaran - adat yg perlu dihapuskan
- majlis yg mahal. no use.
- dont be people pleaser, dont buy things to make others happy
- dont rush buy house/car. cash is king



This post has been edited by Porkycorgi5588: Sep 5 2025, 11:55 PM

ketam pun cakap.
ketam takda disagree because Allah cakap boleh.

but based on Quran, you are "saving" the woman, not satisfying your lust.

kahwin Janda perang, kahwin OKU, kahwin orang tua
but kalau kahwin pok pok cui 20yo, dont lie and say you are saving the women la.