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Khamzat Chimaev
post Sep 6 2025, 12:45 AM

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1st point disagree, biologically, women are hypergamy means they only attracted to top-quality men, and these superior men are only 10% in the market.

2nd point disagree, only if u live in the city prolly..

3rd disagree, if you found a good suitor, go for it, what makes you think you will find a better suitor in the future

4th what hantaran? dowry? its compulsory. if she meant gift, then its optional but the wimen always in the position to demand.

5th,6th agree

7th subjective. sometimes ppl buy house as long term invesment, but looking at property market nowadays..

Idk, seems like Malay feminist talking point

This post has been edited by Khamzat Chimaev: Sep 6 2025, 01:12 AM
Khamzat Chimaev
post Sep 6 2025, 08:18 AM

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QUOTE(MR_alien @ Sep 6 2025, 07:02 AM)
who TF find a good suitor at 18-20 years old? laugh.gif

what makes you think you will find a better suitor in the future = it's called experience

u see malay marriage culture is like 18-20 years old, u better married already.....the 2 like only dated twice but already talking about getting married rclxub.gif
not only you're still immature, financially unstable and inexperienced in life, you 2 haven't dated enough to even get to know each other that well
that's why the divorce rate is that high and many malay girls as young as 18 already calling themselves janda doh.gif
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sorry I didnt know the context coz i just read the dude summary. isit finding for good suitor or aquiring resource ie money/house before marraige?
in the society we live today, i agree resources is a must for men to settle down..
but if ur looking for experiences by hooking with diff woman before marraige, that just redpill andrew tate's talking point which I'm against. I can give few reasons why it's bad.

 

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