Why not send to nursing home and let the pros to handle?

Taking care alone , siblings?

This is time to talk to them about hiring a helping hand, either fulltime or part-time. Or if budget allows, you can consider send to daycare for old folks in the morning then pick them up at night bring home.  Like kindergarten for kids.

but they forgot, their children also need to make a living. If care for old folks, who is gonna bear the living expenses and etc. Caretakers also got their own responsibilities and they are also human.

I wish euthanasia is legal here. I don't want to be a burden to others when I'm old.

Definitely an option but only if you have money to pay. It's not cheap and those lower few K ones really don't give proper care. For example, the one in Klang (Acacia)  that used to be a hotel building, cost about 9K minimum if you are still independent. Not independent and needed mobility assistant,  they will charge extra cost.

TS's caregiver is also not cheap I guess as those that have off days are paid based on days. Had one when my dad came back from hospital, it was RM150 per day and they need 2 days off per month. So a month comes to RM4.5K.

there are many cheaper and yet good servce old folds nursing home
9K is too expensive.

I'm worrying it's gonna be this way soon with my father, which we doesn't get along with and is a very difficult person to deal with. If I can't stand him at the moment, I wonder how I can cope with him if those things happens?

with declining birthrate, this is a future....make sure you have alot of money before you check into a nursing home

taking care of old people is pain, turns even kind people into bad people