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 Ppl who taking care of elderly,, how do u cope?

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anzen600
post Sep 1 2025, 03:42 PM

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Why not send to nursing home and let the pros to handle?
anzen600
post Sep 1 2025, 04:59 PM

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TS may I know how old is your parent?
anzen600
post Sep 2 2025, 11:30 AM

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QUOTE(MegaCanonF @ Sep 2 2025, 08:09 AM)
79 now
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I totally feel u bro, hats off to u too to have the iron will and unwavering dedication to take care of your old folk. It's extremely challenging task if u are the only caretaker as it will drain u mentally, psychically and monetary, at one point deep in ur heart u will wish it to end soon. (abit jahat and unfilial but it came naturally)

Take care bro!

This post has been edited by anzen600: Sep 2 2025, 04:16 PM
anzen600
post Sep 2 2025, 11:43 AM

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QUOTE(BUprop @ Sep 2 2025, 11:23 AM)
Actually people tell me, I am a good kid taking care of mom. I think my brother goes to heaven while I goes to hell even thought I am the one taking care of mom. Because taking care of mom have high stress and frustrations. Sometimes I scolded my mom. Argued with her. Isn't that worse karma compared to those who didn't take care of her? Those who have my stress please raise their hand. Haha.
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u r not alone bro.. thinking of the karma thing
anzen600
post Sep 2 2025, 04:11 PM

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QUOTE(metalfire @ Sep 2 2025, 03:58 PM)
bed sores too if the old folks are bed ridden

and there are some unscrupulous old folks home that doesn't bother gender. I've seen with my own eyes that some purposely leave the bathroom door open in front of others to see. Such humiliation and then got old man go show his penis openly.
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need a AA nursing home bah.. RM3 to RM5K/mth

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post Sep 2 2025, 04:54 PM

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QUOTE(Akaashi @ Sep 2 2025, 04:20 PM)
Your relatives and other siblings:
1. why you so cold blood? Not a filial child la u.
2. Those who suggest have to pay for the bill. I’m not part of it. We have our family too so I’m not rotating with you as well.
3. (Touch wood if anything happen at the nursing home) see la ? Suggest nursing home summo la? Told you this would happen. It’s all your fault.
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Normally NF with these ppl bah.. Bring no value to ur life why bother nia?

 

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