Ts treat it as money gambling lose or bursa saham. Life is short yolo, mostly everyone die at 60 yo

Damn bro, i feel your pain. I got scammed once before of 32k. All my savings, gone. Just started work few years and living frugally, eat economy rice everyday, use secondhand car while my colleagues all buy new cars etc, just to give it all to the scammers.

This is the hand u have been dealt with. Take it, learn from your mistakes, take some time to grief and move on. You can also talk to your wife. Lean on her for emotional support.

Once u have moved on, you will remember it, but u wont feel like eurhhhhhhh sakitttttt when u think about it.

For me it wasn't even about earning. Scammer mentioned my kid and used that to blackmail me. Didn't help me emotionally. Credit card companies can only say the transactions are valid so I have to tanggung lah. Wishing that my saving account got back something, but they told me they already withdrew the money. Just praying for some goodwill amount that will help.

Exactly this, all logic goes out the window. Have to remind myself to calm down the next time this shit happens. Still feeling very stupid a bout it.

Yeah, the police are very unhelpful. I don't want to discount the banks just yet, but they all want me to restructure my payment just so that I can pay them so yeah....