Dedicated to those Men out there think twice before marriage 😂

Marriage is just like any partnership
If you don't offer the same value as other party desired, you would be resented as well
there's no exactly unconditional love, the only unconditional love is just within yourself. Even parental love they have a set of wishes and requirements and hence it becomes a passive attack (often times)

Talk is always easier than do..
You must experience then know how marriage is.

i actually agree the video. my ex tried to grab as much as she can from me as she decided to exercise the "contract"

Actually the majority don't know what they want when they enter into a marriage "contract".

Find somewhere that hv kind hearted with responsibility to have great marriage life

If pretty lady, make sure u can withstand wolf outside
If drama lady, make sure ur EQ are high enough
If materialistic lady, make sure ur wallet is thicker

Rules No 1, always love yourself!

Rules No 2, just remember Rules No 1!

Why!?

Please remember at begin of your life you are alone. End of your life, you be alone also.

Please always put yourself first n love yourself.

Human = Untrusted

I lazy wanna open new thread

This is also a good vid



Be careful of which woman u date and later, marry.

Upbringing is very important, because that is the core moral values of the person. If the family is one kind, u have to deal with that for the rest of ur life (or until divorce)

Take for example, the indians i know very toxic one. The aunties, the cousins, always gossips and mengumpat a lot. From no problem become got problem.

Simple things like “why ur husband come back late? Got mistress is it?

“U see la, he smile at the waitress, gatal liao, go back whack him”

Some girls also very drama, just like my ex. Another ex also same. Both share a similarity. Broken family. One no father figure, another no mother figure. Divorce can really affect children’s lives for very very long time.

Please dont drag ur children through divorce too

there's a subtly when it comes to self love
when you self love too much, it becomes narcissistic vibe
and selfishness will only lead to emotional blockage or suffering
real love comes from recognize oneself is already good enough to contribute to people or society in many ways

Alfred Adler was good at mentioning this in his psychoanalysis

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Sep 1 2025, 01:08 PM