most of the time

if its gf, she is looking for better bf.

if its wife, she is tired/bored of current husband.

if no children , still young, easy ...can always find another.
if i can turn back time , i will tell my younger self , not worth the time, anxiety, stress from a broken trust relationship


if got assets/children tied together, different story
- sit down discuss first, then think deeply for children sake , can tahan tahan lo... hope for better in future