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synical
post Jul 31 2025, 01:59 PM

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Sorry to read about what happened.

Vasectomy is less invasive than tube tying: men are fertile THEIR WHOLE LIVES while women are only fertile few days a month for x number of years.

It also sounds like you don't have much time left to make a decision one way or the other. If you say you cannot afford a second child, it means you cannot afford, don't let others here tell you otherwise; they dunno your financial situation, neither are they gonna help pay for it. Kids are expensive nowadays. If you want, great; if don't want, you don't have a lot of time...

The Donahue-Levitt hypothesis states that children who are unwanted or whose parents cannot support them are likelier to become criminals.... Controversial, sure, but...

LPPKN/Klinik Nur charges are not too bad, you should look into it, especially the vasectomy charges... whistling.gif

But at the end of the day, it's your family's (you and spouse) decision to make.

I'm saying this as someone who doesn't want kids at all, so ymmv.
synical
post Jul 31 2025, 02:25 PM

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QUOTE(hzmaz2017 @ Jul 31 2025, 02:17 PM)
Several famous individuals were unwanted children, including musicians like John Lennon and Faith Hill, and actress Nicole Kidman.

John Lennon: His parents separated when he was five, and he was raised by his aunt and uncle. 

Faith Hill: She was adopted as an infant and later became a renowned country music star. 

Nicole Kidman: She experienced an unplanned pregnancy and went on to become a celebrated actress. 

Steve Jobs: His biological parents gave him up for adoption. 

Marilyn Monroe: She spent time in foster care and experienced an unstable childhood. 

Jamie Foxx: He was raised by his grandparents after his parents divorced. 

Maya Angelou: She faced a challenging upbringing and later became a celebrated poet and author. 

Kristin Chenoweth: She was adopted as a baby and found success as a Broadway star. 

Bill Clinton: His father passed away before he was born. 

Jesse Jackson: He was born to a teenage mother and faced social stigmas. 

Edgar Allan Poe: His mother died when he was young, and he was taken in by the Allan family. 

Sheryl Crow: She had an unplanned pregnancy and later became a successful musician. 

Tom Cruise: He had a difficult childhood and experienced family instability. 

Ted Danson: He was adopted and later became a well-known actor. 
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These are exceptions, not the rule.
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Also, some of the people you named dropped here turned out to be assholes who ended up mistreating/neglecting their wife and kids, etc, so the point is moot.

 

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