Get two la aiyo. Single child not going to grow up normal social wise. Seen way too many single child joining university or first job (the first time they leave the nest), their communication skill and thinking really is naive as fuck.

Love and financial support from parents alone is not enough to prepare them for this harsh world. They need to learn to socialize and handle relationship issues, best way to prepare them is having them socialize among siblings as they grow up. They learn while having the parents beside to guide them.

Also worst is when u grow old the kid will be alone dealing with your hospitalization and funeral. What a nightmare. Since 2020 i been dealing with MIL cancer, FIL dementia, my own mom also got medical condition need to see specialist every 2 weeks and my dad already heart attack once. All this in just 5 years. I cannot imagine handling all this as single child and still work full time, literally impossible.

Wtf cost. Dont get kids if u not planning to get two at least. Kesian the poor kid growing up alone. Then alone handle funeral of both parent. U guys never went through taking care old bed ridden ppl talk cock about cost.

Selfish ppl get kid just to unlock achievement. When u talk about only enough money n attention for 1 kid, u are choosing easy life for YOURSELF not for your kid.