Sep 23 2025, 11:11 AM
QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 12:55 PM)
Anyone here or your wife has had unplanned pregnancy? What was your final decision?
I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next.
Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays.
Care to share any similar experience?
yes me...I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next.
Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays.
Care to share any similar experience?
Its not just financial but also a lot of time.
baby always want to be on my lap or my wife's lap.
The issue isn't pregnancy time, the issue is after birth.
I am not kidding you...when you are stressed at work and come back to finish work, you have to feed baby, put baby to sleep, baby also cannot be left on in the baby cott too long, change diapers, bath baby, sing song to baby, morning rush baby to day care then go to work, then come back pick up.
Fortunately my baby easy to sleep except when sick.
But I tell you, its worth it. I see my baby's face so cute, the way smile back at me and make those cuddly baby sounds. Also my eldest child loved the baby very much.
My advice...keep the baby. Yes its a lot of suffering but its worth it. When I raised my eldest child, my child is not only my precious child but also my buddy and best friend.
you won't gain anything if you don't fight for it.
This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Sep 23 2025, 11:13 AM
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