only 1 child, is good to have another. unplanned by you but probably planned by divine power.

reading through the thread, its interesting and some sort scary how some view having kids are a burden.
To each their own i would say and don't need to change your mind.
However, I think about how 1 child will live when the parents are gone. How parents will live when the 1 child does not grow up as expected or had short comings.