Mix respond with some suggest abortion but not others.

One kid is really sad; good to have another one. I see my only one kid cousin growing up alone .. really lonely one so I agree at least 2 min ..
You should count your blessing as new couple usually hard to get pregnant due to PCOS and what not (medical health related matters)

Not to be mean to compare you with "foreigner" .. if they can have UNHCR with few kids to survive .. why can't you since you are local with better priviledge than them ..

Also I think there is a saying "Anak itu rezeki" .. It the end, things will find its way ..