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CyberSetan
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Jul 24 2025, 01:03 PM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 12:55 PM) Anyone here or your wife has had unplanned pregnancy? What was your final decision? I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next. Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays. Care to share any similar experience? How many kids u have already? Since pregnant already - keep it. Later during birth - if through C-Section surgery ask them to 'ikat' the 'peranakan'. (Bilateral tubal ligation) ie: tutup kilang. (no more preggy) then after this you piap wifuuuu can panzhuut-zhut-zhut all you want inside - also no problem. if birth via normal vaginal delivery - then immediately before discharge - ask for appointment for to 'ikat'. Your wifuu will have to come again some other day to do the procedure.
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CyberSetan
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Jul 24 2025, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 01:06 PM) Currently one, we infact planned to only have one. Thanks for the advice, will have a talk with her and hopefully she agrees to do that. She was reluctant previously, and asked why it couldn't be me to be the one doing the surgery. Lol. pity your one child. Get another one lah. At lease if got two - they can say they have sibling. 4 ppl in a famili ok what. travel also ngam2.
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CyberSetan
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Jul 24 2025, 01:53 PM
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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 01:06 PM) Currently one, we infact planned to only have one. Thanks for the advice, will have a talk with her and hopefully she agrees to do that. She was reluctant previously, and asked why it couldn't be me to be the one doing the surgery. Lol. if dun wan ikat, then another way is to put IMPLANON under her skin. This one lasts about 3 years no preggy
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CyberSetan
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Sep 23 2025, 12:17 PM
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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Sep 23 2025, 10:57 AM) why no ask husband potong (vasectomy) ? 'that one can also. but if wifuu already want to tutup kilang - then much easier to do when already doing c-section. (operate)
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