. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened.

You're the first one here so far supporting the idea of abortion. Yea, will have one last proper talk with her before deciding.
Nope I didn't use protection, all my life I've only used protection for 3 times out of 400+ times (lost count), that's why I was so sure of my pull out game, well this time things didn't work out.

TS and his wife talked about having only one child, but in this post, I don't see any real effort to prevent pregnancy. If you and your wife were truly serious about avoiding another pregnancy, situations like this wouldn't happen. Don't tell me you were relying on the rhythm method or the pull-out method—both of which have been shown to be highly unreliable.

I would suggest abortion for the well-being of everyone involved. Why bring another child into a world where both of you are unable to provide the best for them? Even worse, the limited resources meant for your first child will now have to be shared with a second. The world is a never-ending rat race and hardships. I see little reasons for bringing another child into it—especially when they cannot consent to being born, and their parents weren’t even planning to have them in the first place.

Those encouraging you not to consider abortion are only feeding into your own selfish desires. Have you truly thought about whether that unborn child would even want to be born under these circumstances?

Don’t be surprised if, one day, you hear things like “I didn’t ask to be born” or “I wasn’t even planned,” especially if their life doesn’t turn out well.

I know everyone going to FCUK me!

Base on what you write, my advice is drop now as under 6 weeks is no life n your life partner is safe.

Please do it probably as this is your life partner.

i'm a bit confused, on one hand the gynae told you possible through surgery here And have to do it before second trimester.
on the other hand, advised we don't have medical abortion in Malaysia.

anyway, how long still before you need to make a decision? of course dont leave it last minute la. when you decide time maybe doc not free.
i do believe there is abortion service but its not exactly illegal.

I believe the doc I went to have. but you may have to ask discreetly.
its around setapak, let me know if you need so i can tell you where and you take it from there.

you are right with the concern and like another forumer say, ppl can say whatever they say about your finance. you know better.
even my previous comment dont really encourage abortion but you know best.