Advice Wanted Life after my divorce, New chapter
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 Jul 2 2025, 02:53 PM
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Elite
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Jul 1 2025, 10:35 PM) There is almost no benefits for a guy to be good/close friend with a woman. It benefits women more than men. Only few exception like fwb. Hey bro, long time no see. How you doing? Anyway, there are benefits to being good friends with a woman. They have a different perspectives and approach than guys. Its often easier to explore problems/emotions with women compared to men. |
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Jul 2 2025, 07:46 PM
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Elite
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Jul 2 2025, 04:44 PM) I'm doing great, still much more to learn about life. How bout you? Did you get what you wish for in life? Pretty much  Life always throws curve balls, but overall I'm happy with what I haveQUOTE We can get perspectives from female acquaintances doesn't need to be "close" friend, being close require extra effort and getting less in return. In another term a waste of time and resources. Here's the irony, the more I ignore them trying getting close to me, the more they are interested. If only these beta males know these unspoken wisdom. You're still looking at them as partner potential, rather than friend, that's why you think that way. If you graduate from that thinking, you'll notice you won't be talking about your friendships in such a transactional way. If I wanted to explore my problem/emotions let it be my gf/wife. Or better yet in the bed 😆. Ain't got no time for these spoiled brats. You won't get good perspectives from acquittances because they don't really know you, so anything said to you would be generic crap. There are also some things you can't talk to your wife about, at least not right away without building up to it. Which is why therapist and counsellors exist. Friends can often take those roles whether male/female. |
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Jul 3 2025, 07:56 PM
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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ Jul 3 2025, 12:32 AM) I'm glad you're still here. Ok, quick recap who do you miss the most? Gotta be me rite ? rite ? 😂 nah, that tiggy, dunno where he disappeared to QUOTE @PIOPIO i miss you 😘 I don't think she's here anymore  QUOTE It got nothing to do with seeing them as potential partner. Oh we will never graduate from having fun lolz. I don't think you understand what I'm sharing, but its ok. One day you will.No shot. Female acquaintances that I know will give me good perspectives not because of how close we are, but generally because they are just good people. Plus, getting a good female perspective is already a low bar in terms of benefits. Therapists/counsellors are trained—they are not the same. |
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