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Advice Wanted Fell in love but can't be together., Rant

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Ramjade
post Jul 3 2025, 02:56 PM

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QUOTE(forlowyat1 @ Jul 3 2025, 01:47 AM)
Bruh... A7 is too much. Imagine writing 15 full pages of words on A7 when it took me 5 hours for A4....

Oh no I'm not gonna dig my memories on that 15 pages of cringe essays 😂 I'll give a summary or an idea of it.
So it begins with sharing what I feel about our experience together.
Then what I think about her. (Fyi I did not touch a single hair of that lady, proud of myself being able to stay gentleman til the end. But u know as a guy we all wanted to have something if you know what I mean)
After that I asked her questions on what she thought of me.(Not expecting a reply) Just to let it out.
Then proceeds to answer questions I couldn't answer when she was drunk.
Then throughout the letter it's filled with thanks and grateful for the experience.
Last few pages would be ABIT nagging like don't do stuff that affects health. Do this do that. Then told her it's not her fault for any of these since she always apologized to me when we were hanging out. Or should I say when I was babysitting a stranger. Well I admit I'm a simp hah.
Anyways it ended with thanks again and with some farewell gifts. (Some of my home cooked meal and snacks for her pets)
Still simping till the end. God I'm such an idiot.

I won't share the song directly here because I'd like to stay anonymous here 😂 we'll just let fate decide and see if you can stumble upon my song on YouTube/tiktok/Instagram by chance. Hahaha it won't be that good cause my singing sucks and my playing skills are all just average  Joe.

Thanks for the salute. It's was like a mountain got lifted up from my shoulders after I sent it. Occasionally my mind goes argh I should've or shouldn't wrote that yadiyada. But still I was relieved. Still both glad and regret at the same time 😂 glad that I'm not that much stressed anymore and regret that I'm such a cringe HAH WHO THE HECK SENDS LETTERS NOWADAYS
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I am a letter writer. If can I want tk write to my girl.
Ramjade
post Jul 4 2025, 03:23 PM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jul 4 2025, 01:37 PM)
That's why some ppl suggest coffee dates for first dates. But there are also ppl who would argue that coffee dates are too low effort from the man's side. It's like he's not trying to make the date special at all 🤷🏻‍♀️🙈
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I never do any fancy dates. Just sushi zanmai or fish bowl or salad atelier
Ramjade
post Jul 6 2025, 03:39 AM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jul 4 2025, 01:37 PM)
That's why some ppl suggest coffee dates for first dates. But there are also ppl who would argue that coffee dates are too low effort from the man's side. It's like he's not trying to make the date special at all 🤷🏻‍♀️🙈
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If she cannot accept my lifestyle of being frugal, sorry she is not the one for me.

There are more than one way to show effort. Going on expensive dates is just being materialistic..

You can show effort by traveling to see her, hear her out, cuddle and do nothing, cook for her, indulge her with her favourite food every now and then, always make time for her.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Jul 6 2025, 07:53 AM

 

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