Jun 24 2025, 10:54 AM
QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 24 2025, 05:43 AM)
Title: My clingy long-distance girlfriend asks if I talk to others when I'm busy —
what should I do?
Hey everyone, I’m in a long-distance relationship with a girlfriend who’s emotionally dependent.
She needs constant communication and attention. I’ve been trying my best to chat with her every day, even during off work hours when I’m really busy.
I actually need to sleep at 8:00 PM every day because I have to wake up at 4:50 AM.
But sometimes I end up sleeping at 11:00 PM after chit-chatting with her, so I only get 6 hours of sleep or less.
But sometimes, when I don’t reply quickly or miss a day, she’ll ask me things like, “Did you go chat with someone else?”
I often change the passwords for the social apps we use to avoid chatting with her, but sometimes I can’t control myself.
I end up pressing “forgot password” and then use my reset password to log in again so I can keep chatting.
I know she’s insecure and just wants reassurance, but it adds pressure on me emotionally.
I’m wondering — would it be okay if I only message her every 2 or 3 days during busy workweeks, as long as I still show I care?
Or would that make things worse between us?
I care about her, but I also don’t want to feel guilty for focusing on work. She says she loves me, but sometimes I feel like the trust isn’t solid.
Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?
How do you manage a clingy partner in a long-distance relationship when your schedule is tight?
Any advice would really help. Thanks.
have you met her in person before?what should I do?
Hey everyone, I’m in a long-distance relationship with a girlfriend who’s emotionally dependent.
She needs constant communication and attention. I’ve been trying my best to chat with her every day, even during off work hours when I’m really busy.
I actually need to sleep at 8:00 PM every day because I have to wake up at 4:50 AM.
But sometimes I end up sleeping at 11:00 PM after chit-chatting with her, so I only get 6 hours of sleep or less.
But sometimes, when I don’t reply quickly or miss a day, she’ll ask me things like, “Did you go chat with someone else?”
I often change the passwords for the social apps we use to avoid chatting with her, but sometimes I can’t control myself.
I end up pressing “forgot password” and then use my reset password to log in again so I can keep chatting.
I know she’s insecure and just wants reassurance, but it adds pressure on me emotionally.
I’m wondering — would it be okay if I only message her every 2 or 3 days during busy workweeks, as long as I still show I care?
Or would that make things worse between us?
I care about her, but I also don’t want to feel guilty for focusing on work. She says she loves me, but sometimes I feel like the trust isn’t solid.
Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?
How do you manage a clingy partner in a long-distance relationship when your schedule is tight?
Any advice would really help. Thanks.
For LDR to work you need to know her at least 1 year before you guys go for LDR
Also you need a long term plan, what is the end game?
are any of you planning to link up after some time ?
So who is the one in overseas? you or her ?
If there are no plans to link up in future, to live together, please forget about LDR
its too much hassle lah.
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