Please ask yourself, can you live with your parents when they are old and need your help even you have a family?
Will you only to marry your wife on condition she can live together with your parents?
Can you work nearby to your parents so that you can take care of them?

How are you arrange to help your old parents?
How can we do something to help our old parents?

Our parents feed and take care their kids from at least 17 years (high school) or to 22 years (college year),
can their kids feed and take care their parents 17 years?



https://www.malaymail.com/news/malaysia/202...20-years/180404


Lonely deaths: Raub couple found lifeless in shophouse, post-mortem confirms heart attacks; wife suffered Parkinson’s for 20 years


Sunday, 15 Jun 2025 10:11 AM MYT

KUANTAN, June 15 — An elderly couple was found dead in their home in a shophouse in Kampung Sungai Ruan, Raub, yesterday.

Raub district police chief Superintendent Mohd Shahril Abd Rahman said the body of Wong Tong Seng, 75, was found lying in front of the kitchen sink and infested
with maggots while the body of his wife, Loh Kam Ngo, 73, was found lying at the edge of the bed in one of the rooms.

“The initial inspection found no elements of crime and the house was in good condition,” he said in a statement yesterday.

He said further investigations and post-mortem results conducted at the Raub Hospital found that the cause of death for both victims was
due to Acute Coronary Syndrome (heart attack).

He also said that the woman had been suffering from Parkinson’s disease for the past 20 years, while her husband was reported to have received treatment for his heart
at Klinik Kesihatan Ulu Gali, and the case was classified as sudden death. — Bernama

This post has been edited by Jened: Jun 19 2025, 11:20 AM

This is not the money matter.

Old parents want to see their kids, they want their kids to accompany them as they think they do not have many years to live.