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Takudan
post Jun 19 2025, 04:18 PM

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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 18 2025, 06:07 PM)
I don't see anything wrong with that. Some girls just want to climb up the corporate ladder as fast as men do. However when girls do this, they're seen as not prioritising their rship. But when guys do this, they're being championed, getting all the big pats on their backs. Gotta love the double standards we have here.
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Jun 19 2025, 01:06 PM)
Girls value guys with high income much more than guys value girls with high income.

A high income woman normally will look for a guy who is higher income than her or at least about the same level. There are exceptions but those are rare.

A high income guy normally wont care what a girl income is. Its even normal to date much lower income girls.
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Jun 19 2025, 01:11 PM)
What's yr point in relation to what I said?
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Lemme try to break it down:
Generally speaking,
⬆️ Corporate ladder = ⬆️ Income

Girl POV:
See man ⬆️ Income = ⬆️ Attraction
Replace the equation...
See man ⬆️ corporate ladder = ⬆️ attraction

Man POV:
See woman ⬆️ Income ≠ ⬆️ Attraction
You get the rest...

I think you may not see the connection, perhaps because you think women climbing corporate ladder is not necessarily associated with money, but perhaps just a sense of achievement in general. In that case, you're right it's unfair, but society often works in collective thinking / stereotypes so there tends to be a skewed perception between men vs women in this context.
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post Jul 20 2025, 03:43 PM

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QUOTE(Drian @ Jul 20 2025, 11:27 AM)
it's not about unfair , it's about whether a guy benefits from that.

When a girl gets a rich guy , their lifestyles get an upgrade, better house, better vacations, more money from husband etc.
The girl gets a status boost, security upgrade, lifestyle upgrade and in fact  i was looking at an article that top 60% of richest women got their money through divorce.
When a guy gets a rich girl, the girl will say my money is my money, your money is your money, the guys lifestyle does not get an upgrade,
the girl has a much higher chance of feeling resentful, start belittle and disrespectful of the bf/husband.
So technically there's no benefit for the guy.
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I'm saying unfair for her because she's not in the stereotypical group, that is to say, your generic statement of wo/men's benefits also will not apply to her.

That said, I'd be careful to apply statistics to everything. In this context, TS isn't talking about a(ny) rich guy, and as a career woman, also less so in the women stereotype.

Anyhow, I think any couple who are happy together will always have some transactions between them, because happy couples are partners contributing together to the relationship, because no one would be happy to be 100% giving and 0% taking for a lifetime. I'd go as far as to say, a successful gold digger has her ways of making the rich man happy, which also means the benefits he gets is happiness.

 

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